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- + (from: anonymous) Body Shots—He walks into the bedroom and notices a crisp white sheet covering the bed, and in the middle, two shot glasses and a salt shaker. On the nightstand i...
- + (from: Rubina) Slapping Party—“I feel like slapping this dumbhead,” Meg says while sipping her morning coffee. “Why not?” Mada laughs. Meg puts down her cup...
- + (from: Subbie) Master and I—As my purse is sitting on the desk in front of me, I hear the beeps from the text message going off. My body fills with excitement because I know it&#...
- + (from: Rubina) Disciplined—From the first occasion when I got corporal punishment, the girls in my office room consent that my work improved. So the three girls (Mada the boss, ...
- + (from: Rubina) Mistakes—Comments: I am an assiduous clerk, working together with three other girls in a room of our office. Our work is simple bookkeeping. It is very boring ...
- + (from: anonymous) Mind Controlled For Sex!—I’ve had this fantasy for a long time, ever since someone in my acting class said he went to a hypnotist to help him get over his stage fright. ...
- + (from: anonymous) Rough fantasy—I have a wonderful relationship with a wonderful boyfriend who treats me right. Most of the time we have a great sex life. But there is one sexual fan...
- + (from: Holly) Hubby told me to write my dirtiest fantasy—My hubby found this site looking for bondage pics. He decided I need to post something here. I am sitting in front of the computer naked typing this. ...
- + (from: anonymous) Darkness—“From now on you are not allowed to say a word,” he tells me. I am wearing a slinky black dress. There is nothing on underneath it, his or...
- + (from: Nena) Meeting Tilda (part 1)—I know she had been watching me. I could feel it every time I had my back to the room. Who she was exactly I am not sure but I knew the weight of her ...
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As of 9/6/10 7:37am. Last new 8/4/10 12:05pm. Score: 4236
- + My Wife Doesn’t Understand Me—“I’m in a mid-life crisis, I guess. The passion is out of my life and I’m looking for something more. My wife doesn’t understand me.” Any polyamoro...
- + Handling Jealousy: How to Fuck Up—I’ve been seeing more than the usual amount of discussion about jealousy on various poly boards lately, so I figure this might be a little topical to ...
- + Patient Griselda, or, Minding the Gap—Mama Java is lounging on the beach right now. Well, okay RIGHT NOW, I’m probably getting sunscreen on squirming little children, collecting bea...
- + Want to be valued? Value YOU!—I need advice. My girl and I began exploring the “lifestyle” about 2 years ago. At some point mid way, I discovered that I was having ner...
- + You’re All Fucking Idiots—About seven or eight years ago, I was unemployed over a summer. Well, not so much unemployed as I was looking for “Real Jobs” through a temp agency a...
- + Ask the Misanthrope: Coming Out as Poly—Dear Polyamorous Misanthrope, I recently started a relationship with a person who has never been poly before. We’ve been dating for a little ove...
- + Ask the Misanthrope: Confused and Need Help—This letter is an edited highlights version – just for clarity’s sake: I am attracted to the idea of polyamory for the spiritual implications, perhaps...
- + Three Conversations for Polyamorous Intimacy—Let’s talk about relationship conversations for a moment. When you’re polyamorous, you’re going to have them more often just because you have more of...
- + The One Penis Policy—Many moons ago, I ran across a term that just tickled the hell out of me, both for its succinctness and its applicability to many polyamorous situatio...
- + Ask the Misanthrope: Left Out—A New Reader Asks: I have been seeing a guy,living and working with him for about 4 months. He introduced me to the idea of polyamory. I had honestly ...
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As of 9/6/10 7:37am. Last new 8/27/10 7:53pm. Score: 2394
- + Poly Weekly #232: Who gets to be the primary?—Who's the primary? Email polyweekly@gmail.com, Twitter polyweekly, call 206-202-POLY or visit www.polyweekly.com [Category: podcasts] [Link to media]
- + Poly Weekly #231: Poly and the media—Poly and the media--how to deal with reporters and media coverage, a panel from the Arisia sci-fi convention. Email polyweekly@gmail.com, call 206-202...
- + Poly Weekly #230: Kink and poly mix—Kink and poly--how do they mix? Email polyweekly@gmail.com, call 206-202-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit the blog at www.polyweekly.com [Category: ...
- + Poly Weekly #229: Mark Yu: bondage & poly in Portland—Mark Yu of Jade Gate Studio, rope bondage dude and poly guy. Email polyweekly@gmail.com, call 206-202-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit www.polyweekl...
- + Poly Weekly #228: Does poly cause atheism?—Irreligion: does poly create atheists? Joreth cohosts. Email polyweekly@gmail.com, call 206-202-POLY, Twitter polyweekly or visit www.polyweekly.com [...
- + Poly Weekly #227: Black Box Republic—Sam Lawrence and April of new sex-positive community site, Black Box Republic. Email polyweekly@gmail.com, call 206-202-POLY, Twitter polyweekly or vi...
- + Poly Weekly #226: How to choose a partner—How to choose/vet a poly partner. Email polyweekly@gmail.com, call 206-202-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or visit www.polyweekly.com or the Poly Weekly Fa...
- + Poly Weekly #225: Modern Poly Fundraiser—Postmodern poly! Email polyweekly@gmail.com, call 206-202-POLY, Twitter @polyweekly or leave a comment at www.polyweekly.com or on our Facebook page. ...
- + Poly Weekly #224: Modern Poly—The new Modern Poly activist website; poly for the holidays. Email polyweekly@gmail.com, call 206-202-POLY, Twitter polyweekly or visit www.polyweekly...
- + Poly Weekly #223: Communicating while angry & Realism in relationships—Communication while angry and realism in relationships. Email polyweekly@gmail.com, Twitter polyweekly, call 206-202-POLY or visit www.polyweekly.com ...
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As of 9/6/10 7:37am. Last new 3/9/10 1:11am. Score: 1312
- + We're worse than Warren Jeffs! And we steal children!— [Author: noreply@blogger.com (Alan)] [Category: critics of poly]
- + Germany: Giant nude puppy pile on newsmagazine cover, re the West's poly future— [Author: noreply@blogger.com (Alan)] [Category: Europe, Deutsch]
- + Wonder Woman's poly origin receiving more attention— [Author: noreply@blogger.com (Alan)] [Category: history]
- + Sex at Dawn, quickie version— [Author: noreply@blogger.com (Alan)]
- + "Queer Polyamory for Lesbians"— [Author: noreply@blogger.com (Alan)] [Category: gay/bi]
- + Objecting to "Polyamory Chic"— [Author: noreply@blogger.com (Alan)]
- + "Why Do People Choose Polyamory?"— [Author: noreply@blogger.com (Alan)] [Category: Deborah Anapol]
- + Upsurge of poly in the French media— [Author: noreply@blogger.com (Alan)] [Category: Français]
- + "Help, our daughter came out poly!"— [Author: noreply@blogger.com (Alan)] [Category: coming out, advice columns, Boston]
- + Canada: Green Party votes down polygamy law repeal— [Author: noreply@blogger.com (Alan)] [Category: Canada, activism]
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As of 9/6/10 7:37am. Last new 9/3/10 1:22pm. Score: 1041
- + Cheating and Sex at Dawn: The Prehistoric Origins of Modern Sexuality—I've witnessed or experienced cheating from just about every perspective over the years, and those experiences are the main reason I'm a polyamorist. ...
- + Oprah Seeks a Triad!—We've known for a long time that the Oprah Winfrey Show was going to feature true polyamory at some point, and it looks like they've finally decided t...
- + My Videos on Poly/Mono Relationships and Resolving Jealousy on KinkAcademy.com—Earlier this year I had the pleasure and privilege of making educational videos based on two of the workshops I give for the webside KinkAcademy.com&n...
- + Cheating: It's Not the Sex, It's the Lying - Jenny Block on FOXNews.com—The last two years for Jenny Block must have surely been an exhiliarating ride. Jenny is the author of Open: Love, Sex and Life in an Open Marriage, p...
- + MTV Returns for Follow Up with Gay Quad in Charlotte—What an interesting development! Last year MTV's True Life episode on polyamory profiled an MFF poly vee relationship in NYC and a poly qua...
- + Hooray! Another Lambda Literary Award for Polyamory—Congratulations to Australian researcher and author Dr. Maria Pallotta-Chiarolli for winning the Lambda Literary Award in a tie for her bisexual and p...
- + Polyamory on Starz Series Party Down—So lately I've been getting into a new ensemble comedy series on the Starz premium cable network called Party Down, about a group of people who work f...
- + The Pinky Song by Alicyn Packard—Healthy sexuality comes in many forms, and everything I post here happens with an underlying sex-positive pansexual context. Once in a while I will po...
- + Polygarol!—Just came across this and love it! Fourth wife indeed. Love the imagery of the football through the THREE tires. Polygarol | Viral/Other | SP...
- + Personal Stories on Polyamory and Compersion on Radio Netherlands Worldwide—This just in. Executive Director Robyn Trask and her partner, Managing IT Director Jesus Garcia, both of Loving More, give a great polyamory int...
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As of 9/6/10 7:37am. Last new 8/13/10 5:19pm. Score: 718
- + we need to look for solutions to the problem of jealousy—I was on the couch today, nursing a prodigious hangover, when up on my Twitter feed popped a new essay from Pepper. What could be better for nausea a...
- + rant: on men being more dominant—So you may have noticed I play submissive to men. Lately I am trying to own it more. But I don’t, in any way, think men are “more dominan...
- + summer, drinks, and pretty girls—I found some pictures. Everyone loves pictures! Here I am recovering from Fetish Factory with normal people, sobriety and an early night. Gall...
- + on the whore’s fallacy—From Dear Coke Talk, who may singlehandedly redeem the advice column genre: I’m gonna go ahead and call this situation the “whore’s fallacy.” It’s tha...
- + squirting solutions—This entry brought to you by the idea that it is awesome to masturbate, and I would be in a much better mood if I did it more. But the mess… si...
- + art of restraint—I had the good timing to be in San Francisco last week during one of Madison Young’s events at her art gallery, Femina Potens. I served chocolat...
- + memories—Sometimes coming to from a faint is like floating out of the sweetest dream. This was far from it. I must have been struggling, because I came to con...
- + stepladder—I wrote this back in September in the long wake of my breakup with the Lawyer. It’s dated, but I think it sums up why I wasn’t blogging, ...
- + better weather—We were headed to Kinkfest and I was well-rested, fed, and flirty. I took off my shoes and put my newly pedicured feet on his dash. My skirt rode up...
- + so, hey, it’s been a while—I suspect a little self-awareness is the death knell for many bloggers: the enormity of how little you know, how much you fuck up, and how much people...
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As of 9/6/10 7:37am. Last new 8/11/10 6:06pm. Score: 4430
- + I was reminded yesterday by a friend that I haven'...—I was reminded yesterday by a friend that I haven't posted to this journal in ages. It doesn't mean that I haven't been up to devious and debaucherou...
- + Get your very own poster of the sex map!—Get your very own poster of the sex map!Available for pre order now:
- + — Find out where I've journeyedon the Map of Human Sexuality!Or get your own here!
- + bzz bzz bzz (that's busy as a bee) get your mind out of the gutter! (or not)—I've been so busy *doing* things lately I haven't had much time to post. There was Dragoncon, and SPANK, and Midori's seminar (although I w...
- + I was just struck by an amusing thought. Whe...— I was just struck by an amusing thought. When I don't know how to communicate, I default to catlike behavior. Apparently my pet is invadin...
- + Trying to figure out if something is normal or ...—Trying to figure out if something is normal or not. I'm pretty sure it is, but it's never really happened to me before, so I'm curious. I h...
- + Oh - I don't think i've specifically mentioned ...—Oh - I don't think i've specifically mentioned it but I am now screening all comments. This journal is open, and was getting some odd remarks, so to s...
- + I want to be beaten. It's been almost a mont...—I want to be beaten. It's been almost a month. Hopefully I'll get some - beating of willing victim, in soon, which is fun, but I'm really stress...
- + *WANT* —*WANT* http://www.blowfish.com/catalog/toys/nonreal_dildos.html#t-wsr-2338 Tentacles. mmmm tentacles. Haven't posted in a while, but l...
- + A fantasy—Posted at the request of.. someone special. One variant of a game we like to play. I'll probably post some other options just fo...
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As of 9/6/10 7:37am. Last new 8/28/09 9:20pm. Score: 3258
- + There's a lot of anger here.—It's been a stressful night. For various reasons, the monkey was supposed to go off last monday (the 23rd) and go drive across country with her girlf...
- + Losing It—The Monkey has been struggling with "freak out" attacks for as long as I've known her. These are times when she'll scream, and then start hurting he...
- + So, an update...—I know the monkey had started to (on paper) write an entry, but I'm here in front of a keyboard so I'll have at it. We're still both poly: she in the...
- + reestablishing/reconnecting—The Top put my collar back on two nights ago, after shaving the underside of my head, to above my ears. I made it clear that a haircut was not somethi...
- + I've been wrong before: The Sleepover Conundrum—Note: It's late, and I'm doing stream of consciousness here, so this may be less than coherent. The monkey is off with her girlfriend. I'm at work a...
- + Feelings I'd rather not deal with—As mentioned in our last entry, the monkey and I are trying to adapt to poly. I'm hurting about this. I'm feeling jealous and resentful, which, desp...
- + being a poly (in practice) slave—We haven't made any public posts lately, but there have been several private ones. In a way, I think this violates what we set out to do, the openness...
- + Last night the Top got very upset about the amount...—Last night the Top got very upset about the amount of clutter we have around the apartment. We define clutter differently, I think. He wants surfaces ...
- + emotionally overwhelmed—Since the hit and run incident I've been feeling rather drained emotionally. My physical resources are going towards healing my body and that also low...
- + locking collar adventures in the trauma center—As some of you know, the Top and I were on the hit end of a hit and run. Crossing the street, 20-30mph limit, driver going at least 60. Didn't slow do...
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As of 9/6/10 7:37am. Last new 8/29/10 4:29pm. Score: 2297
- + Sister Dee Vs. Luna-Vary at Navy Yard—After a long online flirtation along the lines of "I like your look we should shoot" returned with "I like your work we should shoot" for about a year...
- + Goddess Shea—Finally got a chance to rig and shoot Shea while visiting her over at the Casa De Goldstock where her and Goldstock are doing amazing things. I had be...
- + Suspension of Opioid Video—Some video shot with my 5DII and 135 f/2 - Natural light ISO 3200 - converted using Itunes from MOV to MPEG4 - sound is the pits. Unlike the Social Di...
- + Opioid—I had a chance to shoot with the lovely Opioid from Deviant Art and a good time was had by all. She was a rope virgin going and proved to be a great r...
- + I Now Return You To Your Normal Program—After no updates or updates with video I decided to take a second to post a few images...I hope you enjoy....After meeting her at the Sex Blogger Cale...
- + Ball And Chain—the other song i recorded from the show...thanks Koan and LC for making it a fun night... [Author: Stark-Arts] [Category: video, punk, canon, music, s...
- + Social Distortion Reach For The Sky—Social Distortion playing one of my faves in Atlantic City - 5D with 135/f2 - built in mic... [Author: Stark-Arts]
- + Amanda Taylor—I had a great time roaming the streets of NYC this past Monday night...thanks Amanda... [Author: Stark-Arts]
- + Abandoned Buildings—Had a chance to do some more urban exploring the past few days and was lucky enough to have a few models along for the ride. Shout out to Gideon for h...
- + Chocolate Brownie—so this week i got to shoot the delicious Chocolate Brownie in some rope and gas masks - The apartment is brand new and there were no curtains to keep...
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As of 9/6/10 7:37am. Last new 12/5/09 3:45pm. Score: 2038
- + Forms of Power—A post here just got a very interesting comment. I'm going to reproduce it here, and then make a few comments of my own."Why do we condemn the patriar...
- + Irritating crap! ;-)—I was just poking around the blogosphere and completely by accident came across a post from today that mentioned this blog. I'll be going about this a...
- + The Nature of Abuse—There's a very, very old thread over at Nine Deuce's on BDSM that has recently been revived. I had been studiously ignoring it, as it pretty much repe...
- + Thinky comments....—Just got an interesting comment on a rather old post, so I thought I'd pull it out:I think people who ask questions like that are taking an unwarrante...
- + theory, kink, and feminism—I got an interesting comment on my recent post and I thought I should dedicate a post to addressing it, though I strongly suspect that will disappoint...
- + Pulling out a comment—This was buried in the comments in the Respect, Again post and I figured it was best to give it a thread of its own, so here it is:greenspade said... ...
- + Respect again—xposted from my lji'm too heartsick to excerpt from it... but guys, read this. please.http://rageagainstthemanchine.com/2009/02/07/please-somebody-com...
- + research and knowledge—In the comments to my last post, I've been called by an anonymous commenter on singling out Joan Kelly. I understand the anonymous commenter's feeling...
- + More on anger...—This is really just a continuation of the last "My, that was angry, huh..." post, but I did want to include it because I'm blackly amused, and I promi...
- + I wish I had...—a coherent response to this:Joan Kelly January 17, 2010 at 7:15 pm Orlando, I feel like you must not unde...
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As of 9/6/10 7:37am. Last new 7/11/10 12:05pm. Score: 1744
- + casual sex along the way—I've been musing about casual sex and where it fits within the poly spectrum of relationships (or within the human spectrum of sexuality, for that mat...
- + blessing upon entering a new relationship—May my* becoming part of your* life: - bring you pleasure, because pleasure is something everyone deserves - give you a companion to talk to when you...
- + 10 reasons why you should appreciate your secondary partners:—- they have time for you, even though you don't always have time for them - they're always really excited about your date nights (and even take the t...
- + poly homemaking tip—How do you have your cake and eat it too? I've been asked this question quite a few times by friends who want to know my secret to awesome, connecte...
- + meta-moresomes—I have an extraordinary amount of gratitude for the couples who have opened up their lives and hearts and relationships to create room for me to love ...
- + happy birthday to me—44 isn't looking half bad... ;) [Author: kiki] [Category: birthday]
- + bedposts—photo by ItalErian [Author: kiki] [Category: art, erotica]
- + epitoMe— [Author: kiki] [Category: poly]
- + relationships according to my cat—I've been thinking about the individual pursuit of pleasure as opposed to an attitude of bringing happiness to others in relationships, and about how ...
- + younger men—I have been called a cougar, although I prefer to think of myself as young at heart. Sometimes, though, I am stealthily, purposefully feline in the w...
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As of 9/6/10 7:37am. Last new 8/31/10 1:58pm. Score: 1373
- + Upcoming Events—London Ontario Fire Conclave (thats including me!) upcoming performances: Sunday, August 22 we are headlining Canada’s Wonderland. Shows at 3:30...
- + BDSM Bloopers—Things have been way too serious and intellectual like around here lately. So I thought it was about time to inject some comedic relief. Ergo, today's...
- + Post Mortem—I never ever do what I am about to do: publicly talk about the management of events I attend. But sometimes things just need to be said or done. So pl...
- + The Special Thing—One of the main ones that has become a recurrent theme in my life over the past few years is what I have not so cleverly titled 'The Special Thing.' I...
- + Mind Fucks—Back in the day when I had a very different type of profile, one of the things prospective play partners contacted me most frequently about was a mind...
- + Leather Families—At its most basic and simple, a Leather Family is nothing more than a group of people who identify as kinky in some way and wish to be known as part o...
- + The Power of Context—'...many of the truths we cling to depend greatly on our own point of view..' Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar, and sometimes it is a laborious proce...
- + Informed Consent—Consent isnt the be all and end all of the negotiation process. As a top or a bottom, your goal is not to just get a scene underway. Its not a competi...
- + The Allure of Fisiting—Recently a friend thought that I had written an article on fisting and asked could I send it to her to help explain the allure of fisting to another f...
- + Devotion—I thought I knew what wanted from a submissive, from a partner. Things like control, power, structure, protocol, etc. Those things are still there. B...
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As of 9/6/10 7:37am. Last new 8/20/10 10:19am. Score: 400
- + Pussy flogging and the Magic Wand—Then, just for fun, he took the Magic Wand (on High of course) and mercilessly pressed it right onto my clit. I love it when he pulses it - it is almo...
- + Sunday porn update #5—Like previous weeks, here’s the updates from last week for all of the Kink.com sites: 03 Sep 2010 Public Disgrace What would happen if 2 hot gir...
- + e[lust] #19—Photo courtesy of Emmy Welcome to e[lust] - Your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whe...
- + It’s legal to have sex in the park—A postcard from a more enlightened world: My friends tell me that in the Vondelpark, a delightful reserve in central Amsterdam, it is illegal to let y...
- + Naked in a bookshop—We went to our favourite secondhand bookshop. I usually feel comfortable in bookshops: I can spend hours meandering through the stacks. I love finding...
- + This space is special—This is how we feel about our Black Room too: I have heavy curtains over my windows, because I want the outside world to go away when I’m here. ...
- + The sheer indecency of what we are doing—I stand almost naked before his eyes, and before the eyes of the world. He plunders my body with his greedy fingers, and they can do the same with the...
- + Sunday porn update #4—Like previous weeks, here’s the updates from last week for all of the Kink.com sites: 28 Aug 2010 Hogtied WHIP OR TICKLE Jessie hates being tick...
- + Kinksters are masters of consent—A fascinating analysis: The primary power operation of BDSM is a claiming or borrowing of nonconsensual mainstream power dynamics, which are reproduce...
- + Anasteemaphilia—Reminiscing about my last spanking has made me think about the size of James’s hands. I like that they are big: they are in proportion to the re...
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As of 9/6/10 7:37am. Last new 9/6/10 2:32am. Score: 371
- + Release—The latest issue of F/lthy Gorgeous Th/ngs, which is Release, went live on Saturday (August 1st). With it, we have a new subscription model at $9.95-...
- + Modern Love and Legendary Cocks—Many thanks to Madeline for Fleshbotting my Legendary Cocks post (written in a trembling, post-fucked frenzy) and making said cock even more legendary...
- + Cock Love ii. Tales of Legendary Cocks.—I just had sex with the most phenomenal cock I've ever met.I say 'cock' rather than 'person' because I'm going to venture that the cock is an extensio...
- + F/lthy Gorgeous Th/ngs—Without further ado, allow me to introduce:filthygorgeousthings.comIf you are just tuning in, F/lthy Gorgeous Th/ngs, or ‘fgt’ is the creation of deba...
- + Open letter to photographers—I just received an email yesterday from a photographer, the likes of which were as follows:"You have a photo on your web site that you do not have per...
- + Savage lust please—debauchette and I are looking for reader submissions for a couple of areas on our new site. Hot, steamy, sweaty, lust and love filled somethings are w...
- + Getting back in touch—Hello there.I've been awfully remiss in writing lately. debauchette and I have been focused on getting things together to launch fgt, which is set to...
- + Natural birth control—Question: Which method of birth control is 99.9% effective (actually it's 100%, but I'm told that statistically you just can't say that), doesn't inv...
- + Saddlebacking defined—The verdict is in. Saddlebacking sad•dle•back•ing \ˈsa-dəl-ˈba-kiŋ\ vb [fr. Saddleback Church] is officially the term for: "the phenomenon of C...
- + To fuckbuddy or not fuckbuddy—I'm torn on this issue.I prefer to: 1) fall in love or 2) have flings (contained arrangements, often induced by travel) or 3) spend my time creatively...
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As of 9/6/10 7:37am. Last new 8/28/09 9:20pm. Score: 2965
- + Belle de Jour—Belle de Jour is the pen name of Brooke Magnanti, a UK-based writer and science researcher.Running the Bristol 10k on May 9th to raise money for the C...
- + Belle de Jour is the—Belle de Jour is the nom de plume of Brooke Magnanti, a UK-based writer and science researcher. Please contact Conville & Walsh or Orion Books with me...
- + Belle de Jour is the nom de plume of Brooke Magnan...—Belle de Jour is the nom de plume of Brooke Magnanti, a UK-based writer and science researcher. Please contact Conville & Walsh or Orion Books with me...
- + Belle's Guide to W...—Belle's Guide to Women... another installment in the very occasional series.Now for some dating gobsmackers: screw the generalisations. I've compiled ...
- + So, an few updates... am going on holiday soon, lo...—So, an few updates... am going on holiday soon, looking forward to 'getting away from it all'. Seems to be a lot more of It All to Get Away From than ...
- + So, an few updates... Have written—So, an few updates...Have written a piece on the successful Simon Singh libel case appeal. Also recently wrote for Sunday Times on what the fallout po...
- + I'll be running the Sheffield Half Marathon on Apr...—I'll be running the Sheffield Half Marathon on April 25th to benefit SWWOP... Please donate at JustGiving! [Author: noreply@blogger.com (Belle de Jour...
- + ObNotRant: Things are good at home with T. ...—ObNotRant: Things are good at home with T. Sex is great. Life's tolerably decent and my friends? Doing their thing. It's all tickety-boo, nothing new ...
- + For a long time, I've been a geek about, well, loa...—For a long time, I've been a geek about, well, loads of things (the paintings of Van Dyck, for example). I'm also a dork by temperament and a nerd by ...
- + At school, the physics teacher had a quote on one ...—At school, the physics teacher had a quote on one of the pinboards in his room:We dance round in a ring and suppose but the secret sits in the middle ...
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As of 9/6/10 7:37am. Last new 4/28/10 4:01am. Score: 1817
- + New Zealand Fetish Ball—Oh the joys and hopes!New Zealand has a Fetish Ball coming up! Link HERE ANTICI........ PATION;) Speaking of..... segue lines of ...
- + Burlesque Competition Video—YAY!!! Thanks to a pal for taking this video, and recently uploading at my request... I need it to share with someone here in Kiwi lands as I'm i...
- + Midori is a great kisser....—I dream vivid dreams, and strange yet telling, dreams. Apparently my inner self also craves burlesque and fun, so that I dream of upcoming shows that ...
- + Midori is a great kisser....—I dream vivid dreams, and strange yet telling, dreams. Apparently my inner self also craves burlesque and fun, so that I dream of upcoming shows that ...
- + DOKKKTOOOOR ALISON, In the HOUSE—HOT DAMN.... I'm going to do it... post the strange one on the 'family travel blog'...Here's what you all are getting.A lump. Yup, a lump.For a f...
- + OH YESSS, PS—Think HOOTERS is something??There's an energy drink here with a rooster called BIG COCKIt's by line is "Hits the Spot"I ...
- + Magical Workings!—Wow, did that FUCK YOU ever work!Not that I said "fuck you" to a person... more to the voice that says I can't have what I need / want,...
- + Our own lyrics—Reading a really powerful, deeply honest post has made me think about permission.... about giving ourselves permission to feel what we feel, to do wha...
- + Impromptu Flogging Workshop—Young nightclub attached to a party-bus type backpackers. Lots of very inebriated young adults on holiday, night after night. They do things...
- + Sex Saviour—At least maybe for some Queenstownians....I've got them reeling with attention. Here where good customer service is in simply not snarling at you...
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As of 9/6/10 7:37am. Last new 9/18/09 4:13pm. Score: 1724
- + ASHA's "Ask the Experts"— [Author: amy@embodiedsexuality.com (Amy Stapleford)] [Category: women, sex, attraction, dating, relationships, health, porn, men, communication, mast...
- + When your partner has ADD, part V: stimulant drugs— [Author: amy@embodiedsexuality.com (Amy Stapleford)] [Category: women, sex, dating, relationships, health, values, ADHD, men, ADD, science]
- + When your partner has ADD, part IV: mental and emotional stimulation— [Author: amy@embodiedsexuality.com (Amy Stapleford)] [Category: women, sex, dating, jealousy, relationships, books, men, communication, ADD, science]
- + When your partner has ADD, part III: changing positions— [Author: amy@embodiedsexuality.com (Amy Stapleford)] [Category: women, sex, pussies, dating, relationships, values, men, communication, ADD, masturba...
- + When your partner has ADD, part II: touch— [Author: amy@embodiedsexuality.com (Amy)] [Category: women, sex, pussies, dating, relationships, values, men, embodiment practice, communication, ADD...
- + When your partner has ADD, part I: sexual values— [Author: amy@embodiedsexuality.com (Amy)] [Category: women, sex, dating, sex ed, relationships, health, values, men, communication, ADD, orgasms]
- + Questions about Sexual Health— [Author: amy@embodiedsexuality.com (Amy)] [Category: sex, dating, announcements, sex ed, health, porn, masturbation, orgasms]
- + Asperger Syndrome in Relationships— [Author: amy@embodiedsexuality.com (Amy)] [Category: dating, Asperger Syndrome, relationships, autism]
- + Big, Beautiful Women— [Author: amy@embodiedsexuality.com (Amy)] [Category: women, sex, attraction, dating, relationships, health, fetishes, men, science]
- + Seeking Interviewees with AD/HD— [Author: amy@embodiedsexuality.com (Amy)] [Category: ADD]
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As of 9/6/10 7:37am. Last new 8/9/10 10:44am. Score: 1469
- + Off to the Playa—Photo by Mac Well, this is it: I’m off to spend a week in the desert with 49,999 other naked hippies at Burning Man. I hope to return a little m...
- + Misty ices her nipples for the web cam— Back to Miscellaneous Gallery Back to all photo galleries
- + A peek under Misty’s dress— Back to Mechanic’s Gallery Back to all photo galleries
- + Identity Crisis: The end of an era—Original photo by Mac In the past year or so I’ve been going through some changes. Usually when someone says something like this they are referring to...
- + Webcam boobs— This is a webcam photo from about 3 or 4 years ago when I was reminding a former lover who had moved to England what he left behind. Back to Miscel...
- + The Other Complication—Original photo by Mac Sometimes I feel like my love life is just one big (really mean) prank someone is playing on me. I know that sounds overdramatic...
- + Diva Boy— .adHeadline {font: bold 10pt Arial; text-decoration: underline; color: #aadd99;} .adText {font: normal 10pt Arial; text-decoration: none; col...
- + Frustration—Original photo by Lucky “I’ve never gotten so many handjobs in my life.” “I know,” I replied. “I feel like I’...
- + The Promise—Original photo by Lucky …I was basically wrecked all day long and barely made it through work because I was getting really freaked out about wha...
- + Fishnet treasure— Back to Mechanic’s Gallery Back to all photo galleries [Category: Experiences]
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As of 9/6/10 7:37am. Last new 8/28/10 1:41pm. Score: 1322
- + It's been a month since I last updated this blog, ...—It's been a month since I last updated this blog, and I apologize for that. Please bear in mind that I was moving away to grad school and have only ju...
- + 5 things you should never say before, during, or immediately following sexual intercourse.—Sometimes at night, I meet up with my best friend of 20 years to bullshit about absolutely nothing. More often than not, absolutely nothing turns in t...
- + Fun Factory Bimini Ocean—Trying to masturbate in my family's house without getting caught is a foolish endeavor. It's kind of like trying to rob a bank with no ski mask on and...
- + I didn't ask for this.—I stumbled across Elodie's post, "It's Not Your Fault," on Twitter whilst preparing for slumber. This post actually made me pause mid-tooth-brush and ...
- + Family Life—This is what I have been reduced to: hiding my sex toys in bags under my computer desk JUST so I can charge them. Don't even think that I'm going to u...
- + I'm back!—I got back in from all of my traveling at about 2am last night (this morning?). I've missed you guys, and I can't wait to find a few moments' privacy ...
- + HNT—I tried to do this Chatroulette style, but I couldn't take it seriously. [Author: BB] [Category: HNT]
- + Leeeeeaving on a jet plaaaaaaaane...—In 24 hours, I will be hopping on to a teeny tiny jet to fly to my graduate school and get the lay of the land for a few days. I'm absolutely terrifie...
- + Body Image—According to a few people, my body proportions are "perfect." According to the vast majority of people, my breasts are too small, my hips are too big,...
- + Wahl vs. Eroscillator vs. Hitachi—I've got a new video up at EdenFantasys.com, available on the pages for the Wahl 2-Speed Massager, Eroscillator 2 Plus, and Hitachi Magic Wand. It's a...
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As of 9/6/10 7:37am. Last new 8/23/10 8:30pm. Score: 1128
- + spandex & lucite shoes: part 42, the last days of FleshCo—Last week, I wrote something brand new and read it. It's the tail end of a tail I've prolonged telling. Now a week in review, I realize there ...
- + two new pieces, free and loose, as women were meant to be— So it's August, and it's hot, and I have two new pieces in Filthy Gorgeous Things's "Nakedness" issue. One's called "G...
- + close personal naked friends (no benefits)—A cigar may just be a cigar, but a hot chick holding an AK47 is a phallic symbol. Or something.I recently sat for more illustrations drawn by the illu...
- + barriers, plastic and mental—On the heels of the 4th of July, here's a reason to prolong celebration. I've a new piece on Filthy Gorgeous Things. This month the theme of t...
- + just ask hester prynne— Slut-shaming is a new term, but it’s an old premise. Being a woman who has rarely let the roaring crowds define my life choices, I’m relative...
- + object lessons— Last November, I stood dressed in my tattered skivvies for Molly Crabapple. She sat on the floor with her legs folded under her looking like ...
- + more rejected tailpieces: fumbling deaf, dumb and blind—Sometimes even I find it hard to tell the truth. Sometimes the truth is hard to tell. I wrote this story for a collection, one edited by a person I kn...
- + miss remiss or links and things to feed the savage beasts—I have been lax. I’ve been remiss. I’ve been a bad blogger, and I should be spanked, except that I often enjoy spanking, so therefore I should suffer ...
- + a meditation on why Dockers are a blight upon mankind—I've a new piece on Filthy Gorgeous Things, and in it I undress men with my eyes. And then I dress them with my words. And then I undress them jus...
- + sexually, i'm more of a denmark: a highly subjective book review—I’ve been trying to count how many times I’ve penned myself profiles for dating advertisements, and the truth is I can’t. Since my first major relatio...
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As of 9/6/10 7:37am. Last new 8/9/10 8:41pm. Score: 1038
- + Super Sexy Sucking Here—I love that Good Vibes allows reviewers to pick items for review or giveaways. This is totally awesome because I can be an active member of the review...
- + Sensual Cocoa & Goji Berry Cleansing Bath and Shower Gel—Thus far, I have really been satisfied by all the Intimate Organics products I’ve tried. The clitoral gel was intense, the G-spot gel made me sq...
- + All About the WordPress Database—A lot of my fellow bloggers and reviewers are using WordPress. Whether they started with it or have made the move from another (potentially inferior.....
- + Pinwheel—The Wartenberg Wheel was originated a medical instrument used to test sensitivity. It has since been adopted by kinksters who enjoy all sorts of stimu...
- + Pleasurists #92— Abandoned Nude 4 by tiago13pereira Welcome to Pleasurists, a round-up of the adult product and sex toy reviews that came out in the last seven days. ...
- + I’m PMSing—This is exciting news. Except for everything that goes with the upcoming menstrual flow. But, you see, I’ve never been in a place where I was ha...
- + Jenna’s Hot Trimmer Chronicles—It’s not usual that I want to write about a product for review immediately but I couldn’t help myself when it comes to Jenna’s Hot T...
- + Throbbing hearts waterproof Vibrator—I like throbbing things, especially throbbing body parts. Like a cock as it ejaculates inside of you or the spasms of my PC muscles during orgasm. Thr...
- + Public Service Announcement: Banner Sizes—Today’s public service announcement is brought to you by Of Sex and Love and sponsored by the letter “Y” as in “You’re d...
- + Symphony Massager—This month’s (okay, last month’s, I guess) Sexpert toy from California Exotics is the Symphony Massager. It’s true to its name (mass...
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As of 9/6/10 7:37am. Last new 9/4/10 5:49am. Score: 761
- + Ancestors—Because I’m a curious person, I get to wondering about how sexual the previous generations of my family were. (This isn’t as weird as it s...
- + Positions of temptation—It can be difficult to find the time to check out everyone’s Wanton Wednesday and HNT photos. In this regular feature, I showcase my favourite pics of...
- + Sociosexuality OE—How could I possibly not take a test that promises to tell me how promiscuous I am? Especially when it’s a) really simple, and b) really easy to...
- + Buck’s boots—Buck Angel was coming to Auckland Erotica Expo 2010. I was going to be at Auckland Erotica Expo 2010. Buck wears boots. I like to black boots. I follo...
- + Arousal—It can be difficult to find the time to check out everyone’s Wanton Wednesday and HNT photos. In this regular feature, I showcase my favourite pics of...
- + Let’s have a parade—This weekend is Auckland’s Erotica Expo, and today – as they do every year as part of the build-up – it was the Boobs on Bikes para...
- + e[lust] #18— HNT Courtesy of Barefoot Dreamer – Photo by Jon H. Welcome to e[lust] - Your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the s...
- + Appreciation—It can be difficult to find the time to check out everyone’s Wanton Wednesday and HNT photos. In this regular feature, I showcase my fav...
- + Ocean voices—Untitled 3, by Samantha Wolov No! She could feel it coming, and she didn’t want to let go. To let go meant losing control, losing the framework ...
- + Latex Pet (on Set)—Last weekend I went to a 30th birthday celebration. I knew no-one except for the host, who works with me (but that’s okay – I’m used...
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As of 9/6/10 7:37am. Last new 9/4/10 4:47pm. Score: 693
- + Stuff—Today I have decided not to post a loquacious, opinionated, contentious piece OR a pithy, titillating, sexual story. Why? Because it’s almost La...
- + HNT. Risk.— There came a time when the risk to remain tight in the bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom. ~Anais Nin HAPPY HNT!!! Sha...
- + Body Language. Confession #508— I watched as she walked by, the expression on her face decipherable, given with such intent and vigor, in fact, that it could have been easily interp...
- + Sadie’s Thoughts on Cheating. Confession #507—Cheating has been on my mind lately for a number of reasons. The revolutionary new book, Sex at Dawn has just been released, and it contains very stro...
- + Friday Q & A. Avoiding an STD.—I received this question from a woman who opened up her marriage about a year ago ~ Sadie, I took my first lover last year, and it was wonderful, but ...
- + HNT. Liberated.— I want women to be liberated and still be able to have a nice ass and shake it. ~Shirley MacLaine HAPPY HNT!!! Share: [...
- + Ready. Confession #506—The two of us stood eyeing the summer sandals on display; the rows of open-toed, strappy shoes a gentle reminder that the Texas temperature was climbi...
- + Sadie’s Parenting Style. Confession #505—Hubby and I had been married for just over two years and we were living in a converted loft in the old Dutch Boy Paint Factory in Oakland, California....
- + Drop. Confession # 504—Have you ever been driving home after a morning at work and while you were stopped at a red light you realized that you had a voicemail from a blocked...
- + HNT. Lazy.— Deep summer is when laziness finds respectability. ~Sam Keen HAPPY HNT!!! Share: [Category: HNT]
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As of 9/6/10 7:38am. Last new 9/3/10 8:29am. Score: 219
- + Greta's Pacific NW Speaking Tour, Sept. 9-13 -- And Brief Blog Break—IMPORTANT UPDATES! The location for the Reed College talk has been changed! See below for details. And we're working on a last-minute event in Seattle...
- + The People I've Slept With— A young woman is talking to her newborn baby. "I love sex," she says. "And some people thought it was a bad thing. But I've learned that a slut is j...
- + Friday Cat Blogging: Violet Helping Me Write—And now, a cute picture of our cat. This is Violet, helping me write by sitting on my chest, plonking her butt on my lap desk, and draping her tail o...
- + Atheist Meme of the Day: No Right to Not Have Your Beliefs Questioned— Today's Atheist Meme of the Day. Pass this on; or don't; or edit it as you see fit; or make up your own. Enjoy! "People have a right to their belief...
- + Atheist Meme of the Day: Unexplained Does Not Mean Supernatural— Today's Atheist Meme of the Day. Pass this on; or don't; or edit it as you see fit; or make up your own. Enjoy! "We don't currently understand X" is...
- + Skepticism As a Discipline—This piece was originally published on AlterNet. Why does skepticism matter? Not just in science, or history, or other academic pursuits where rigo...
- + Atheist Meme of the Day: Religion Is Not Just a Metaphor— Today's Atheist Meme of the Day. Pass this on; or don't; or edit it as you see fit; or make up your own. Enjoy! Religion is not just a metaphor. If ...
- + Lady Gaga: Music Videos As Porn—This piece was originally published on CarnalNation. I realize that I'm late to the Lady Gaga party. (Hey, I'm 48 years old. Cut me some slack.) But...
- + Atheist Meme of the Day: Criticism Is Not Intolerance— Today's Atheist Meme of the Day. Pass this on; or don't; or edit it as you see fit; or make up your own. Enjoy! It is not intolerant or dogmatic to ...
- + Harder—Important note: This post discusses my personal sexuality, in a great deal of detail. Family members and others who don't want to read about that stuf...
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As of 9/6/10 7:38am. Last new 9/5/10 2:38am. Score: 195
- + Food Play, Part 2 – Vegetable Matters—Note: This sex tip is part 2 of a three-part Food and Sex special contributed by Maxine Green. Stay tuned for the rest! I doubt there can be anyone on...
- + Food Play, Part 1 – Dessert!—Note: This sex tip is part 1 of a three-part Food and Sex special contributed by Maxine Green. Stay tuned for the rest! This is the first of three art...
- + Tokens: Keeping yourself in a sexy mood.—This week’s tip is a neat little way to make yourself feel sexy by keeping a reminder of sexy fun with you wherever you go. This can be as simpl...
- + New respect for an old toy— When folks first start exploring things like paddling and spanking and other kinky stuff in bed, there are two things that they often end up buying v...
- + Trying Something New by Abandoning What You Know—This week’s sex tip is a bit counter-intuitive, because I’m going to suggest trying something that’s a little unorthodox…namel...
- + Negotiating New Needs: What if I am Submissive and my Partner Isn’t Into BDSM?—Help! I am married. I am a submissive into BDSM. My husband is not interested. What can I do? That’s a very tricky question. The short answer is...
- + Negotiating New Needs: What if I am Submissive and my Partner Isn’t?—Help! I am married. I am a submissive into BDSM. My husband is not interested. What can I do? That’s a very tricky question. The short answer is...
- + We’ve moved!—I’m sure you’ve probably noticed that there haven’t been new tips these past couple of weeks. Weeklysextip.com has moved to a brand-...
- + Let’s Get Naked!—I’m a huge fan of sex games (as you can imagine, considering that I’ve invented one), but I have nowhere near the talent of some of my fri...
- + Is that really true? A catalog of sex myths—This week’s sex tip article is a bit delayed. It’s been a fun, but exhausting, week; I spent last weekend in Atlanta at a sex convention, ...
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As of 9/6/10 7:38am. Last new 8/30/10 12:24pm. Score: 2336
- + Mojowijo - The Wiimote Vibrator, Round 2—Mojowijo - The Wiimote Vibrator, Round 2 A few years ago, we posted about the OIOO, a cover for the wiimote that turned it into an adult toy. While t...
- + Sputniko! and the Penis Cybernetique—Sputniko! and the Penis Cybernetique I originally found out about Sputniko!, the art site of Hiromi Ozaki, via the oft-referenced-here We Make Money ...
- + IRC #slashdong - Now on Freenode—IRC #slashdong - Now on Freenode I’ve been on IRC for far, far too long. Most of the time these days I can be found hanging around various ...
- + Deldo - The Sex Toy and Teledildonics Mode for Emacs—Deldo - The Sex Toy and Teledildonics Mode for Emacs If it weren’t for sex robots, I’d never get laid, ‘cause, well, of this video ...
- + Erotic HCI at NordiCHI 2010—Erotic HCI Workshop at NordiCHI 2010 Call For Papers Who wants to go to Iceland and talk about sex with computers? I do! I do! Much like the Sexual ...
- + A bunch of links - 2010-05-10 Edition—I never really wanted to get to the point on this site where I just reposted a bunch of links. However, I now find myself in the situation where I hav...
- + Best Unboxing Ever—There’s a certain set of us out there that sort of have, um, problems when we get new things. We like to open them. Not just the box, but whatev...
- + Tactile Mind - Haptic Porn—Prefacing this with credit, I found this thanks to a post by Cory Silverberg, and you should totally visit the store he helps run, Come As You Are, be...
- + In which qDot reveals how much of a nerd he is...—Sure. It’s been months since I’ve posted anything anywhere near relevant to the topic of the blog. It’s been a slow newsyear (Rubbot...
- + Arse Elektronika - Technosexual Bodies Exhibition in Hong Kong, April 1-27— Arse Elektronika - Technosexual Bodies - Hong Kong, China, April 1-27 It’s time for Arse Elektronika on the other side of the planet! Technose...
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As of 9/6/10 7:38am. Last new 8/19/10 2:43am. Score: 2608
- + Longevity linked to emotional intelligence—If you have stepped outside of the rules of “normal” for your culture, you have probably become attuned to language that reinforces those ...
- + Do you Like me? If yes, check this box.—I guess now I know why no one tries to pick me up in Facebook. According to Top 10 Social Networking Pickup Tips on AskMen, you are all avoiding me be...
- + iPhone + FaceTime + OhMiBod = Cybersex under the covers—Debby Herbenick gives the iPhone 4 and FaceTime video chat a turgid, throbbing thumbs up as a cybersex platform. I’ve been taking another look a...
- + People with more sex partners use iPhones, not Droids—According to Mashable, Dating site OkCupid reports that among its subscribers, iPhone users report the highest number of sexual partners, while Droid ...
- + Momentum 2010: social media, sexuality, and feminism— This looks like an interesting event, similar to Sex 2.0 (or perhaps it actually is the evolution of the Sex 2.0 unconference?) Welcome to the first ...
- + I gotcher sex toy discount code right here—I noticed that polyamory author Jenny Block is gettin’ all coupony with Good Vibrations, so I negotiated a discount code for my readers too R...
- + Do you set or update your relationship status?—I’ve never set my relationship status on Facebook or any other social media. As you have noticed, I am an extremely private person, never willin...
- + Male deep-water squid solves relationship problem with ’strongly elongated penis’—I suppose this isn’t on-topic as it is sex science related to animals, not people. Also, it’s sad — if I am reading it correctly, th...
- + Psssst … want to buy a domain? Sex.com is up for auction—The sex.com domain is for sale again, along with two trademark registrations, reports CNET blogger Lance Whitney. But before you whip out that credit...
- + Is there more sex online or in your head?—Apparently 37 percent of the Web is porn. I don’t know if they mean pornography literally or if they included all sex-related content – I ...
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As of 9/6/10 7:38am. Last new 8/30/10 7:49pm. Score: 1373