+ (from: anonymous) my shy wife—My wife is very sexy. Long legs, nice rack, tight body, the works. But...

+ (from: rubberducky) Soft fantasy—I am a man whom has long had a fantasy that I may or may not be able t...

+ (from: anonymous) Boyfriend’s roommate—I am a female, age 22, going to college in the northeast. I just start...

+ (from: anonymous) While you are away—This is for my husband who is away on deployment in Iraq. Darling, I m...

+ (from: anonymous) First time with another man—You’ve been wanting this for years. We’ve talked about it...

+ (from: Bree) Holes Are for Filling— “Let’s play a game.” I was tied to a chair so my le...

+ (from: Bree) Suspension—Chris must have slipped something in my drink, because there was no wa...

+ (from: Bree) Abandoned—I woke with a start. Chris had thrown open the door to the walk-in clo...

+ (from: Bree) Gangbang—I was staying with family in Naperville, a pleasant little suburb of C...

+ (from: anonymous) paying his debts—I’m home alone waiting for my husband. He should be off work any...

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As of 6/19/13 8:33am. Last new 1/3/13 6:33pm.  Score: 12437

+ Virtual Sex: her response to the Internet Sex Experiment—Send to KindleDearest X,It has been sort of a dry spell (though never,...

+ The Internet Sex Experiment—Sexy, sexy woman,I’m as obsessed by you as I’ve always been. It’s been...

+ The Neighbor Experiment – Free for your Kindle this week—This week I’m giving all of you who haven’t read my erotic...

+ The Unmarked Door: Our Orgy Experiment—Nothing dulls like routine, and nowhere is that truth more felt than i...

+ Friday Fantasy: Erotic Library—Here’s an erotic library fantasy with twist from sexy reader MrTinkert...

+ Friday Fantasy: Dressing Down—Here’s a dressing room fantasy with a little domination thrown in from...

+ Friday Fantasy: Live Nude Girl, Shy Nude Boy—Here’s an art fantasy with an unexpected twist from sexy reader ...

+ Caveman: a First Date Experiment—Recently reader kristye wrote about her unique and vivid sexual awaken...

+ Truth: her response to the Truth or Dare Experiment—Sometimes truth gets in the way of Truth or Dare. Here’s a sampling of...

+ Friday Fantasy: A Cigar is Never Just a Cigar—Recently the site’s Your Fantasies Group has been a virtual laboratory...

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As of 6/19/13 8:33am. Last new 4/23/13 6:07am.  Score: 5458

+ First of May—I tend to celebrate the First of May in a couple of ways.  First, I li...

+ Don’t Treat People as Things—I reposted Secondary Clarity on Tumblr yesterday, and got a very inter...

+ More on Consent—I ran across some utter nimrod spouting the “Consent is HARRRD&#...

+ Rule One*—This was an ask on my Tumblr, but I just had to repost it. Hi there! I...

+ Polyamory on Purpose Guide to Polyamory and Pregnancy—  Jessica Burde, polyamorous writer, has released a nice little b...

+ How to Teach Your Sons About Consent*—Me: Good morning, son. Pop quiz. What constitutes consent? Son: A cle...

+ You Can’t Fuck Your Way to Good Self-Esteem—I’m new to polyamoury and I guess I’m into the “kid ...

+ Thoughts on Being Used—Some years ago, I wrote an article called “Being Used.” It...

+ It’s Not Polyamory-Specific—I had someone comment that an article I wrote on great polyamory relat...

+ How to Ask People Out—Do you have any advice for a guy in a...Read more Related Posts:Bounci...

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As of 6/19/13 8:33am. Last new 5/1/13 7:14am.  Score: 7626

+ — [Author: noreply@blogger.com (Anita Wagner Illig)]

+ Fits and Starts with lots of Pinterest—You may have noticed that I've not been putting up much new content he...

+ Polyamory - It's Not Just for Baby Boomers Anymore—In his most recent entry at Polyamory in the News, Alan quot...

+ This Week on Savage Love: Dan Gives Poly People the Last Word on Poly as Orientation—How lovely to see that Dan Savage was as good as his word when he rema...

+ What We Do or Who We Are? Round 2 with Dan Savage—Dan Savage has included more thoughts in today's Savage Love about the...

+ Dan Savage Responds to the Poly-As-Identity/Orientation Controversy—With regard to last week's post about Dan Savage's advice to a polyamo...

+ Sierra Black on HuffPo With Advice on Taking More Than One Honey Home for a Visit—An excellent blog post has just been written by Sierra Black...

+ This Week on Savage Love: Dan Rejects Polyamorous as Identity—I have to admit I'm disappointed in Dan Savage today after readin...

+ ABA Journal: Are Laws Barring Polygamy Destined to Fall? Law Prof Defends Marriage of Two—And so it begins.  Legal same sex marriage is at its tipping poin...

+ Man Man Beaver (No, not THAT kind of beaver!)—Man Man Beaver is a new web-based animated series described as follows...

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As of 6/19/13 8:33am. Last new 5/16/13 3:11pm.  Score: 7105

+ PW 360: Crowdsourcing jealousy—Crowdsourcing jealousy: what are your tips for addressing it? Email po...

+ PW 359: Being out and pregnant—How to deal with questions and judgments when you're obviously poly an...

+ PW 358: There's an app for that!—Get ready to get your geek on, 'cuz this week we're talking about apps...

+ PW 357: How much sex is "normal"?—In a committed relationship, how much sex is too much? How much is too...

+ PW 356: The poly hype cycle—The poly hype cycle.Email polyweekly@gmail.com, call 802-505-POLY, Twi...

+ PW 355: Does penis size matter?—Does penis size matter? The study. Email polyweekly@gmail.com, call 80...

+ PW 354: Wife Swap—This week, an episode of the reality show Wife Swap aired, featuring a...

+ PW 353: The polynormativity problem—Andrea Zanin shares thoughts on the issue with polynormativity. Email ...

+ PW 352: Prostate pleasure and health—Charlie Glickman and Aislinn Emirzian talk prostate pleasure and healt...

+ PW 350: To fight or not to fight... for poly marriage—Is the fight for legalization of poly marriage worth it? Why or why no...

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As of 6/19/13 8:33am. Last new 6/7/13 11:33pm.  Score: 4127

+ Poly as "the relationship status of a totally fabulous future"... And from long-timers, warning signs.— [Author: noreply@blogger.com (Alan)] [Category: activism]

+ "The case for polyamory. And while we’re at it, let’s privatize marriage."— [Author: noreply@blogger.com (Alan)] [Category: marriage]

+ "How polyamory is saving some couples"— [Author: noreply@blogger.com (Alan)] [Category: couple privilege]

+ Showtime's "Polyamory": Rerun of Season 1, then a new Season 2— [Author: noreply@blogger.com (Alan)]

+ "Polyamorists strive for future legal recognition as national convention wraps up"— [Author: noreply@blogger.com (Alan)]

+ "Love as a many-partnered thing. First polyamory convention in Canada celebrates emerging relationship trend."— [Author: noreply@blogger.com (Alan)]

+ "Canada’s ‘polyamory’ community to descend on Vancouver for convention"— [Author: noreply@blogger.com (Alan)] [Category: Canada]

+ "Will the bonobos in our midst make monkeys of us all?"— [Author: noreply@blogger.com (Alan)] [Category: Canada]

+ " ‘I’m happier when I’m with several people’: Polyamorists prepare for B.C. convention"— [Author: noreply@blogger.com (Alan)] [Category: Canada, conferences]

+ Advice columns, continued— [Author: noreply@blogger.com (Alan)] [Category: advice]

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As of 6/19/13 8:33am. Last new 6/18/13 10:18am.  Score: 4066

+ on being ordinary and superpowers—Years ago I enjoyed dating on OKCupid, because their personality match...

+ the sweet spot—Escorting was the final frontier in sex work for me.  I’ve hesit...

+ disarming audacity—[Pushing through more drafts. Yay, drafts! Boo, caption formatting tha...

+ the coldest winter—[I'm bumping off a series of old drafts. This was written some time in...

+ reblog—I have a branding problem: clients don’t like my blog.  Well, ha...

+ same story, new year—You know what’s crazy?  I’ve been “in the scene̶...

+ goin’ pro—With latex!  I’ve started working in the studio with Klawdya for...

+ stripping after nyc—What would stripper boot camp be?  Contract work like Guam, or those r...

+ walking in high heels—New York women are well-heeled.  I mean literally.  Not all of them, n...

+ how to break my heart in 10 seconds—“I love you, even though you’re a whore.  But can I ever t...

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As of 6/19/13 8:33am. Last new 6/18/13 2:57am.  Score: 11904

+ Dear Gay Leathermen: Why didn't you tell us?—So, the monkey and I happened by Leather Etc. in San Francisco yester...

+ Some rehashes about this blog.—Hey there, I go by the first initial D, and I'm "The Top". The monkey...

+ The Emotional Reset Button (reposted from Fetlife)—Sometimes, I need to just cry. I'm in a distance relationship, where ...

+ Something Important for Today— Things have been interesting and rough here, but if you don't recall...

+ I LOVE MY MONKEY ...—I LOVE MY MONKEY ...that is all.

+ Goals—The monkey is being slow to work on a few goals I've had set -- she's ...

+ Things feel good—I admit that while I don't post often and it seems more often than not...

+ The monkey returns—The monkey is back from a 21 day trip across the country, visiting fri...

+ lightening the mood—Top and I have a lot of amusing exchanges that I make a mental no...

+ As a followup to the last entry—I want to post some "life-goals" for the monkey. We've discussed some...

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As of 6/19/13 8:34am. Last new 10/20/12 6:16pm.  Score: 9817

+ Forms of Power—A post here just got a very interesting comment. I'm going to reproduc...

+ Forms of Power—A post here just got a very interesting comment. I'm going to reproduc...

+ Irritating crap! ;-)—I was just poking around the blogosphere and completely by accident ca...

+ Irritating crap! ;-)—I was just poking around the blogosphere and completely by accident ca...

+ The Nature of Abuse—There's a very, very old thread over at Nine Deuce's on BDSM that has ...

+ The Nature of Abuse—There's a very, very old thread over at Nine Deuce's on BDSM that has ...

+ Thinky comments....—Just got an interesting comment on a rather old post, so I thought I'd...

+ Thinky comments....—Just got an interesting comment on a rather old post, so I thought I'd...

+ theory, kink, and feminism—I got an interesting comment on my recent post and I thought I should ...

+ theory, kink, and feminism—I got an interesting comment on my recent post and I thought I should ...

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As of 6/19/13 8:34am. Last new 8/29/12 12:19pm.  Score: 6666

+ Enchantress Sahrye X 2 - Leave A Comment — Which do you prefer? No wrong answers? Just trying to figure out wha...

+ Enchantress Sahrye— [Author: Stark-Arts] [Category: bath, pin-up, tub...

+ JJ Plush Vs Giant Pink Ball Gag And Giant Pitbull—you have to love JJ. If you like skinny girls, fat girls, short girls,...

+ Empress Sahrye— [Author: Stark-Arts] [Category: bath, pin-up, tub...

+ Enchantress Sahrye— Sahrye is really a great model. We played the "lets shoot" game for ...

+ Beauty Foster—Going through some old work while it's still cold and my travel schedu...

+ kinda slow this time of year—new york has been locked in a cold spell and that has limited my shoot...

+ Ms Koi Bound With Hemp Rope Wearing Fishnets— I do miss Koi - she was a character and fun to shoot and tie - she ...

+ Stephy C Masturbating On Cobble Stone In Bondage— @JustStephyC in rope on cobble stones [Author: Stark-Arts]

+ Mistress Elena Part Dos— Mistress Elena - Yum [Author: Stark-Arts]

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As of 6/19/13 8:34am. Last new 5/28/13 4:43am.  Score: 5518

+ feeling awkward, staying shiny—This is a story about polyamory, and quantum physics, and dreams, and ...

+ feeling awkward, staying shiny—This is a story about polyamory, and quantum physics, and dreams, and ...

+ eating the devil—*Fuck* aging gracefully -- mostly because I just don't care anymore to...

+ eating the devil—*Fuck* aging gracefully -- mostly because I just don't care anymore to...

+ poly pace—When you're in poly relationships, you eventually develop a feel for t...

+ OMG, it's a penis..—Why do guys send gals pics of their cocks on dating sites?This questio...

+ some amazing sex + events are happening in my communty...— [Author: kiki]

+ whasslutmean2u?—Being a writer/librarian, I thought it might be fun to find out how we...

+ Jealousy Deconstructed: a workshop from The Bliss Factory—Here's a video clip from my workshop "Jealousy Deconstructed" (The Bli...

+ The Bliss Factory: New workshops for Fall 2011—My new poly, open and sex positive relationship workshops are up for F...

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As of 6/19/13 8:34am. Last new 8/30/12 3:04pm.  Score: 5416

+ Check your privilege! George Carlin Style—I’m having a ‘WWGCD?’ moment. Would WOULD George Car...

+ Entitlement Culture—GAHHH! The internet is internetting wrong again. Back in the day (say....

+ But what I really meant was..—Its 3am. I should be trying to sleep. But after a few hours of interne...

+ Let’s get ready to ramble! or.. Gaslighting, Narcissism and other fun things—I have no idea where this post is going to go. Buyer beware.. Earlier ...

+ True Grit—I have a bit of a new resolution: to stop wearing my crazy as a consta...

+ Poly In Motion—Kink In Motion started as a way for me to talk about kink. It’s organi...

+ A letter to myself a year ago..—Dear Me A Year Ago, A significant date is coming up . A day that will ...

+ Things I keep meaning to blog about part 3: Poly—The last 60-70 days I’ve been pretty immersed in a few things. O...

+ Things I keep meaning to blog about part 2.. Quotes!—I find and hold on to quotes all the time. These are just a few of the...

+ Things I keep meaning to blog about part 1: Podcast Wisdom—Seems each year I find a new podcast to get obsessed with. First there...

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As of 6/19/13 8:34am. Last new 5/21/13 2:13am.  Score: 2421

+ Alphabet Challenge – U is for Under Rock—This week is dedicated to "Memories." Here are some of mine from our t...

+ A Scavenger Hunt Down Memory Lane—All this week, inspired by Marie Rebel's Wicked Wednesday prompt, "Mem...

+ Censorship & How to Fight It—My friend and British spanking performer, producer & writer Pando...

+ e[lust] #47 is out!—The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are feature...

+ #KOTW – Knife Play: A Picture Request—Do you like to play with knives? Check out what happened when we compl...

+ Playing to Red, part 2, in which we discover what watermelon has to do with the color blue…—So where were we? Oh yes, in the middle of a beat-down scene. There st...

+ Playing to Red, or, Watermelon is the New Blue (part 1)—What do watermelons have to do with the color blue? And what does this...

+ Calendar Game – May (And ANOTHER Scavenger Hunt!)—What do April Showers bring? [Category: Calendar Game, Featured Storie...

+ Wicked Wednesday – It’s a Party on the Road! Also, a Scavenger Hunt.—Happy Birthday, Wicked Wednesday!!!   It’s hard to believe ...

+ Masturbation Month Challenge Recap—As I have said before, I totally suck at follow-thru. I meant to updat...

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As of 6/19/13 8:34am. Last new 6/19/13 7:32am.  Score: 1315

+ Caroling for BDSM, Bondage, & Burlesque!??!—Oh, tis the season!! Kinky in Virginia, perhaps, but first Florid...

+ ... long times between kinks—Wow... can't believe it's been a year since i've posted! The New Zeala...

+ New Zealand Fetish Ball—Oh the joys and hopes!New Zealand has a Fetish Ball coming up! Li...

+ Burlesque Competition Video—YAY!!! Thanks to a pal for taking this video, and recently upload...

+ Midori is a great kisser....—I dream vivid dreams, and strange yet telling, dreams. Apparently my i...

+ Midori is a great kisser....—I dream vivid dreams, and strange yet telling, dreams. Apparently my i...

+ DOKKKTOOOOR ALISON, In the HOUSE—HOT DAMN.... I'm going to do it... post the strange one on the 'f...

+ OH YESSS, PS—Think HOOTERS is something??There's an energy drink here with a r...

+ Magical Workings!—Wow, did that FUCK YOU ever work!Not that I said "fuck you&q...

+ Our own lyrics—Reading a really powerful, deeply honest post has made me think about ...

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As of 6/19/13 8:34am. Last new 11/30/10 10:55pm.  Score: 10216

+ the year of living almost celibately—it's been a strange year. for someone who advises people to have plent...

+ the year of living almost celibately—it's been a strange year. for someone who advises people to have plent...

+ Release—The latest issue of F/lthy Gorgeous Th/ngs, which is Release, went liv...

+ Release—The latest issue of F/lthy Gorgeous Th/ngs, which is Release, went liv...

+ Modern Love and Legendary Cocks—Many thanks to Madeline for Fleshbotting my Legendary Cocks post (writ...

+ Modern Love and Legendary Cocks—Many thanks to Madeline for Fleshbotting my Legendary Cocks post (writ...

+ Cock Love ii. Tales of Legendary Cocks.—I just had sex with the most phenomenal cock I've ever met.I say 'cock...

+ Cock Love ii. Tales of Legendary Cocks.—I just had sex with the most phenomenal cock I've ever met.I say 'cock...

+ F/lthy Gorgeous Th/ngs—Without further ado, allow me to introduce:filthygorgeousthings.comIf ...

+ F/lthy Gorgeous Th/ngs—Without further ado, allow me to introduce:filthygorgeousthings.comIf ...

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As of 6/19/13 8:34am. Last new 8/29/12 12:19pm.  Score: 7736

+ On the Anniversary of Roe v. Wade, Thoughts on Shame—Yesterday was the 40th anniversary of Roe v. Wade, the US Supreme Cour...

+ bitchslapping 101—Last Saturday, I went to a play. It was, and I wish I could be more ch...

+ pubes, politics, pop and words, words, words—The crickets chirping on this blog wouldn’t make you suspect it, but I...

+ 13 ways of looking at an abortion—Thirty-nine years ago, the decision known as the Supreme Court handed ...

+ ovunque, ma qui—The wood is wet. Sadly, this is not a euphemism. The wood is wet despi...

+ not fade away—I went to only one Grateful Dead show. It was such a perfect experienc...

+ stand back. woman with a sword.— Oh, Dr Who. You showed such promise with the creation of Dr River Son...

+ stand back. woman with a sword— Oh, Dr Who. You showed such promise with the creation of Dr River Son...

+ feeding the dream of The Impossible Girl— I don’t remember when I started following Kim Boekbinder, The Artist ...

+ her name isn't bubbles—My friend Bubbles Burbujas, also known as the amazing StripperTw...

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As of 6/19/13 8:34am. Last new 1/23/13 6:10pm.  Score: 7591

+ Body Mapping: Sex and Asperger Syndrome— [Author: noreply@blogger.com (Amy)] [Category: sex, dating, Asperger ...

+ Body Mapping: Sex and Asperger Syndrome— [Author: noreply@blogger.com (Amy)] [Category: sex, dating, Asperger ...

+ Osmolality and toxicity of sexual lubricants— [Author: noreply@blogger.com (Amy)] [Category: STIs, sex, sex ed, hea...

+ Osmolality and toxicity of sexual lubricants— [Author: noreply@blogger.com (Amy)] [Category: STIs, sex, sex ed, hea...

+ Osmolarity and toxicity of sexual lubricants— [Author: noreply@blogger.com (Amy)] [Category: STIs, sex, sex ed, hea...

+ A must-read if you love someone with AS— [Author: noreply@blogger.com (Amy)] [Category: women, sex, dating, As...

+ A must-read if you love someone with AS— [Author: noreply@blogger.com (Amy)] [Category: women, sex, dating, As...

+ Communication in an "Aspie Marriage"— [Author: noreply@blogger.com (Amy)] [Category: women, sex, attraction...

+ Communication in an "Aspie Marriage"— [Author: noreply@blogger.com (Amy)] [Category: women, sex, attraction...

+ The State of the Amy— [Author: noreply@blogger.com (Amy)] [Category: ASHA, sex ed, sexual o...

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As of 6/19/13 8:34am. Last new 8/29/12 12:19pm.  Score: 6713

+ THIS BLOG HAS MOVED!—THIS BLOG HAS MOVED! As of this writing, I am no longer blogging at t...

+ I'm on Twitter!— I have gone to the dark side, and am now on Twitter! If you want to k...

+ Puritan Pundits Should Chill Out -- Here Are 5 Reasons I'm Happy I've Had Lots of Casual Sex— The phenomenon of women who have sex for its own sake seems to baffle...

+ The Switch to Freethought Blogs - Some Questions Answered—As regular readers already know, this blog is going to be migrating. I...

+ Grief Beyond Belief -- How Atheists Are Dealing With Death—This piece was originally published on AlterNet. In a society that re...

+ I Need a Banner For My Freethought Blog!—I'm going to be moving my blog to the Freethought Blogs network soon, ...

+ The Karaoke Pledge Has Been Completed!—And here it is, as promised -- video of me singing karaoke. Jesus fic...

+ We Are Atheism - Greta's Video—Y'all know about the It Gets Better project, right? Where people make ...

+ Greta Interviewed on "Ask an Atheist" Podcast!—Are you a podcast fan? If so, check out my latest interview! I was rec...

+ Memo to Religious People: Many Atheists Don't Want to Hear That Their Loved Ones "Are in Heaven" -- New Group for Non-Believers Helps Atheists Grieve— In a society that reflexively copes with death by using religion, gri...

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As of 6/19/13 8:34am. Last new 9/1/11 4:14am.  Score: 6713

+ Two Sluts and a Microphone, Episode 3—We’re working on getting a more regular schedule going, so bear ...

+ Episode #2 of Two Sluts posted—Lee and I have posted our second episode of Two Sluts and a Microphone...

+ Sex Diary Quickie—Mac, his bed. Wanted to wake him up with a blow job but the position w...

+ Playing Games with Justin—I knew Justin had a crush on me, but I could never decide if I was rea...

+ Introducing: Two Sluts and a Microphone—It’s here! Lee and I have finally posted the very first episode ...

+ Sex Diary Quickie—Mac, his bed. A few hours later, after laying naked in bed chatting an...

+ Sex podcasts—In the next month or so I will be launching TWO new podcasts! I’...

+ Sex Diary Quickie—Mac, in his bed. After chat about HPV and his first night with Domina....

+ Sex Diary Quickie—Lucky, in our bed. Morning sex. from November 15th, 2007 [Categ...

+ Sex Diary Quickie—Lucky, in our bed. Date night, a little tipsy and tired. Eventually go...

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As of 6/19/13 8:34am. Last new 2/17/13 4:31pm.  Score: 6690

+ Should Mia Freedman Apologise?—I went to Australia last month as a guest of the Opera House for the A...

+ Happy Trails...—So, if you've been wonderingwhy I've not been writing much here lately...

+ Happy Trails...—So, if you've been wonderingwhy I've not been writing much here lately...

+ When Help is Anything But—You may already be aware of the recent prostitution consultation in Ir...

+ When Help is Anything But—You may already be aware of the recent prostitution consultation in Ir...

+ Why Scotland should not make sex work illegal—UPDATE: MSPs have voted that Grant's bill will have to go to consultat...

+ Why Scotland should not make sex work illegal—At the same time that the Moratorium 2012 campaign kicks off in London...

+ London 2012: Will the Olympics bring more prostitutes?—It's a well-known rule in journalism that if the headline asks a ques...

+ London 2012: Will the Olympics bring more prostitutes?—It's a well-known rule in journalism that if the headline asks a ques...

+ Newquay Lap Dance Claims Wrong—Via Lori Smith, I was alerted to this claim last week by police in Cor...

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As of 6/19/13 8:34am. Last new 4/26/13 5:05am.  Score: 5808

+ 25 Things I Want (In Bed)—Recently, Greta Christina got the awesome opportunity to go and see Ad...

+ Sexy Specs: Guys In Glasses Picspam—I find it ridiculously sad that while glasses have gotten deserved lov...

+ Can I Be Your Daddy?—This is an old Myspace blog I wrote a couple of years ago, but I feel ...

+ Shit That Makes Me Angry—If I come across something I find upsetting, I usually try to give it ...

+ Yes, I Would Like A Bumpy Glass Dildo, Please—And really, who wouldn't? They're solid and heavy and require less lu...

+ Teabaggin' Singalong—(Found this one lurking in my "Drafts". Unfortunately I missed out on ...

+ "But You'd Look So Pretty If You Wore Makeup!"—I've been feeling very . . . attacked lately because of my gender and ...

+ Dudes With Boobs—Yeah, it's a post about guys with boobs, as says the title. And no, i...

+ I'm A Winner!—Did I happen to mention THAT I WON THE SEXTOYS.COM CONTEST? (Oh yes, t...

+ What Does It Mean To Be Pansexual?—Lately I've been struggling with that exact question. What does it me...

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As of 6/19/13 8:34am. Last new 8/29/12 12:19pm.  Score: 5721

+ Backyard Dash—When Lauralyn mentioned she was going to do a self-portraiture dash co...

+ Intriguing Reading #63—My regular roundup of interesting reads, found from all over the place...

+ Sunday Laziness—It’s Sunday. Who wants to get dressed on Sunday? I know I don...

+ Cut Me—Knife play turns me on – a lot. I love to do it (with partners I...

+ Bent Fiction— Take one writer – that’d be Greta Christina – who k...

+ A Kiss is But a Dream—He stood a little over six feet and was solidly built, with a rusty-re...

+ Intriguing Reading #62—My regular roundup of interesting reads, found from all over the place...

+ Hitting the Drive-Thru—Mmm, Wendy’s. Hylas’ favourite takeout place, and scene of...

+ Getting Naughty with Tiggy—From the first time I first snuggled up to Hylas in his giant teddy be...

+ Why Do I Like Being Owned?—I never thought I’d want to be owned. When I first began explori...

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As of 6/19/13 8:34am. Last new 6/18/13 7:33pm.  Score: 5473

+ Losing Count—It's funny how pain and arousal make it difficult to do even the simpl...

+ Losing Count—It's funny how pain and arousal make it difficult to do even the simpl...

+ Vertigo—I don't have the words to say how much I love him. I try, but it sound...

+ Vertigo—I don't have the words to say how much I love him. I try, but it sound...

+ Nipple clamps are a dish best served cold...—It is no secret that I absolutely hate the nipple clamps. Stupid, scar...

+ Red—Sometimes there is no word for red.Things can go wrong. Things do go w...

+ [Poly means many] Love—Sadistic love by RubberwoofI love my boy. And only him. Romantically, ...

+ Caged—I was toying with the idea of buying him a cock cage long before I did...

+ Pierced: the aftermath—I wrote in April that Mr L and I had decided to take our relationship ...

+ [Poly means many] Boundaries and rules—I have a sub, a Dom and a vanilla boyfriend. I need boundaries between...

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As of 6/19/13 8:34am. Last new 9/21/12 10:26pm.  Score: 3638

+ 5 Weeks, 5 Giveaways: Week 4 – We-Vibe Salsa + Tantus O2 Flurry— We are quickly getting down to the wire! Next week is the final givea...

+ 5 Years, 5 Giveaways – Week 3: Lelo Mona 2—  In my third year of reviewing I came across the Lelo Mona, the origi...

+ Who Should Decide if a Sex Toy is Worth its Price?—When you review a sex toy, do you talk price? Is it just me? I feel th...

+ “For Novelty Use Only” Part 1— The sex toy industry is rife with half-truths, flat-out lies, confusi...

+ 5 Years, 5 Giveaways – Week 2: Nobessence Seduction or Romp— At first, I loved Nobessence from afar – they’re pricey, ...

+ Yet another sex toy industry awards show….Or is it??—I don’t normally write these posts, and after June 7th, this wil...

+ Why I’m Not OK With Companies Publishing My Review—Many sex toy review bloggers, especially right now, got their start at...

+ Two awesome sex toy sales—You really should take advantage of these sales!! Copyright 2008-201...

+ 5 Years, 5 Giveaways – Week 1: Njoy Pure Wand— Unless you’re new here, you know that I don’t always foll...

+ Rainbow G-Spot Dildo from BS—“BS Is Nice“  is a newer silicone company making hand-pour...

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As of 6/19/13 8:34am. Last new 6/18/13 11:27pm.  Score: 2568

+ U Touch Down—The second piece in the U Touch line is a gently-curving internal vibr...

+ This Week on Tumblr— Since I am more actively pinning things to my Tumblr account, I’...

+ Hideaway—I know that you want to run away, hide from the world. I just want you...

+ State of the Union Address—Amid my site going down for a little bit, I didn’t have much of ...

+ Nick Hawk GIGOLO Keyless Cuffs—Let me preface this by saying, WTF “Gigolo?” That’s ...

+ The Best Alternatives to EdenFantasys Affiliate Program—While this isn’t my job, I make a few dollars here and there, an...

+ U Touch Up—I was excited when I first found out about the U Touch line by Topco. ...

+ The Death of EdenFantasys—   If you’ve been around the Internet the last couple days, then ...

+ Liberate Your Sex Life—Thanks to Liberator for the guest post. Since 2002 Liberator has been ...

+ Wartenberg Wheel Winner—The lucky winner of the Wartenberg Wheel is Fire. Conrats! Related po...

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As of 6/19/13 8:34am. Last new 6/17/13 9:13am.  Score: 2309

+ ConTuesday! Fantasyhand—My clit is my prayer bead and your confessions are my liturgy. Amen. N...

+ Malice in Wonderland—Recently, Edwin Pomble, an ex who thinks I’m Satan because, well...

+ ConTuesday! The law of averaging.—ConTuesday has arrived! It’s about to get wicked real up in here...

+ Funhouse love—I once read that we never actually touch the ground, we hover. On the ...

+ ConTuesday! Shoot for shameless—It’s Tuesday and I’m compiling ConTuesday. I remember this...

+ ConThursday! You know you love them.—It wasn’t until I started reading dating profiles that I realize...

+ ConThursday! ConTuesday plus two days.—I’m just going to pretend I’m doing fine and compile ConTu...

+ PMDD: Winter is always coming.— I always know that the truly rough part of the month has descended wh...

+ On why I am kind of trying to date now but not.— There are things I am good at. I can find an orgasm in a bag of medio...

+ ConTuesday! Pinkie nails.—I think it’s pretty well documented that I have no idea when peo...

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As of 6/19/13 8:34am. Last new 6/18/13 2:01pm.  Score: 1809

+ A trip down memory lane—The subject and inspiration of this weeks Wicked Wednesday post is ‘Me...

+ Shopping therapy Sunday #8 : Trussed UK—This is the eighth post in a  series on various kink retail experience...

+ In my wildest dreams—The subject and inspiration of this weeks Wicked Wednesday post is ...

+ At sixes and sevens—On Sunday it was the sixth anniversary of Grimly collaring this girl a...

+ Keep your chin up—Well this statement is good advice in difficult situations isn’t...

+ Promiscuity—The subject and inspiration of this weeks Wicked Wednesday post is the...

+ Voice activated—Today would have been this girl’s gran’s 95th birthday tho...

+ Cloak and dagger—This girl recently got to try some rainwear. It isn’t a fetish t...

+ Heavy Metal—When this girl’s friend Henry was over from Canada last year he ...

+ That’s it! You’re sacked!—Last week this girl’s friends John and J of bound in latex were ...

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As of 6/19/13 8:34am. Last new 6/18/13 7:33pm.  Score: 1601

+ Sadie Reading Chapter 16 from Open All the Way— Share: [Category: advice, BedPost Confessions, ...

+ Links and Things …—Need help with your own relationship? Check out Sadie’s Open Rel...

+ Listen to Sadie on the Pickup Podcast—Stopping by for info about open relationships? Hear Sadie discuss the ...

+ Book Sale—For a limited time, the electronic version of the book I wrote, Open A...

+ For a limited time, the electronic version of t...—For a limited time, the electronic version of the book I wrote, Open A...

+ I Have a New Home!!—Please come see me at That’s What Sadie Said! Share: ...

+ The End. My Last Confession, #602—We decided today that our marriage is over. We will begin divorce proc...

+ Blood. Confession #601—How do you do maintain your sobriety through the tough parts? She aske...

+ Hope. Confession #600—Confessions are fascinating offerings, aren’t they? We take our innerm...

+ Soles. Confession #599—Last night’s casual grab of the back of my neck by a good friend...

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As of 6/19/13 8:34am. Last new 2/7/13 12:29am.  Score: 1091

+ sissyanisdreams: Cute!— sissyanisdreams: Cute!

+ Doing the Toot’n’cum-on….—Doing the Toot’n’cum-on….

+ Our company has an interesting dress code…—Our company has an interesting dress code…

+ That. Is multi-tasking.—That. Is multi-tasking.

+ knottymonkey: I know that look, I get it too.—knottymonkey: I know that look, I get it too.

+ jamie1717: She looks so good like that—jamie1717: She looks so good like that

+ spiritualbdsm: Smokey “the bear” Samadhi says: “Only you can...—spiritualbdsm: Smokey “the bear” Samadhi says: “Only you can prevent ...

+ OMG, those eye things…—OMG, those eye things…

+ Oh, those kinky Brits…—Oh, those kinky Brits…

+ nanking-decade: Be careful what you ask for.— nanking-decade: Be careful what you ask for.

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As of 6/19/13 8:34am. Last new 6/19/13 1:37am.  Score: 286

+ Hitting the right note— This week’s sex tip is an unusual spin on the basic concept of ...

+ Spreading Christmas Joy—Christmas is almost on top of us, and we here at Weekly Sex Tip would ...

+ Boosting your Sexual Self-Confidence—A reader writes: I am in a new sexual relationship with a great guy. I...

+ Bondage…without rope!—If you hear the word “bondage,” what’s the first thi...

+ Communicating desire—A couple of months ago, someone asked me in an email how to talk to he...

+ Talk dirty to me, baby!—A reader writes, I like dirty talking. I keep asking my new boyfriend ...

+ Ben-Wa Balls and Sex—A reader asks, Is it okay for my lover to enter me even though I have ...

+ Food Play, Part 3 – Sweet Sensations—Note: This sex tip is part 3 of a three-part Food and Sex special cont...

+ Food Play, Part 2 – Vegetable Matters—Note: This sex tip is part 2 of a three-part Food and Sex special cont...

+ Food Play, Part 1 – Dessert!—Note: This sex tip is part 1 of a three-part Food and Sex special cont...

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As of 6/19/13 8:34am. Last new 12/29/10 3:51am.  Score: 11347

+ Wait For the Beep - DTMF as Sex Toy Control—Dialing a phone usually mean calling someone or choosing options in an...

+ LovePalz Ships, also doesn't, also now in Beta—So, let's go on a little field trip down history lane... September 201...

+ The End of Opendildonics Wiki— OpenDildonics is dead. Long live someone else's sex toy wiki. For tho...

+ The End of MMOrgy - Posts now part of Slashdong—tl;dr MMOrgy is dead. All old posts can now be found on Slashdong unde...

+ Arse Elektronika 2013 - ID/ENTITY - Call For Papers— It's that time again! Ok, weird realization since I've been working o...

+ Slashdong Moved to Pelican—Now that Jekyll has started getting updated again, it's time to flee! ...

+ Durex Fundawear - Almost There—tl;dr No, I haven't been living under a rock. Yes, I've heard about Du...

+ Lovepalz shipping... with a whimper, not a bang—I've been dodging writing about all of the crazy new toys that've been...

+ Physics Glorious Physics—Why mine bitcoins when you can virtually drop stacks of floppy dildos ...

+ Heatwatch II— HeatWatch II. Fuck writeups. Diagram says it all. I love living in t...

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As of 6/19/13 8:34am. Last new 6/7/13 12:40am.  Score: 8063

+ I’m coming out of retirement for One Night Only, this Saturday in SF — see you there?—The Bay Area’s craziest spoken word event celebrates its 10th an...

+ Girlfriends ask, boyfriends deliver: Design your own luxury sex toy—I estimate that at least half of the sex-tech entrepreneurs I’ve...

+ Follow-up: ThriXXX supports Kinect and Fleshlight simultaneously—I’ve had a great email exchange with Brad at ThriXXX and am stil...

+ Follow-up: ThriXXX supports Kinnect and Fleshlight simultaneously—I’ve had a great email exchange with Brad at ThriXXX and am stil...

+ Kinect goes Wiiiiiiiiiiii, Wiiiii, Wiiii, all the way home — to home base, that is—The month has been full of “OMFG when will someone develop a sex...

+ Stem Cell Transplant Cures HIV In ‘Berlin Patient’—Stem Cell Transplant Cures HIV In ‘Berlin Patient’. Timoth...

+ I’ll see your tentacle and raise you a Pigeon—Geekologie and about a billion other nerdy sites posted about a robot ...

+ 5 years later, The Toy pairs with Droid to bring more joy—Almost exactly five years ago, I wrote about a complex and interesting...

+ Sherri Williams plays by Alabama rules, opens sex toy drive-thru—I wrote about Sherri Williams v. Alabama in 2005 (“Do You Have a...

+ Tentacle Dreams erotica anthology now on Kindle—Yay! [Category: erotica, me!, mobile, stuff i produced, fantasy eroti...

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As of 6/19/13 8:34am. Last new 4/7/11 5:33pm.  Score: 7575

+ e[lust] #47—                           Photo courtesy of  Behind the Chintz Curtai...

+ e[lust] #47 is open for submissions—Welcome to summer (at least in our Hemesphere) and [elust] #47. We loo...

+ e[lust] #46— Photo courtesy of A Penny for Your Dirty Thoughts Welcome to e[lust] ...

+ e[lust] #46 Open for Submissions—Spring has finally arrived in the UK and just in time for [elust] #46....

+ e[lust] #45—  Photo courtesy of CreativNooky Welcome to e[lust] - The only p...

+ e[lust] #45 Open for Submissions!—Time once again to tell us what you’ve been up to. That’s ...

+ e[lust] #45 Open for Submissions!—Time once again to tell us what you’ve been up to. That’s ...

+ e[lust] #44—  Photo courtesy of Plumptious Pea Welcome to e[lust] - The only place...

+ e[lust] #44—  Photo courtesy of Plumptious Pea Welcome to e[lust] - The only place...

+ e[lust] #44 Open for submissions!—Hello and welcome to e[lust] #44.  February is such a short month and ...

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As of 6/19/13 8:34am. Last new 6/15/13 5:21pm.  Score: 2852

+ How to Shave Your Vagina—    Sometimes you just have to repeat yourself.  Here’...

+ Prefer Not To Say—Just a quick little post today. I’ve been looking around a bit t...

+ True online dating experiences—I’ve not written as much about my experiences with adult online ...

+ Is a Blow Job having sex?—No.  At least not according to several several articles that I recentl...

+ How to survive Valentine’s Day!—I really don’t have the answers.  I’m sorry. Maybe it̵...

+ Safety on Adult Dating Sites—How to be safe on adult dating sites, there’s a lot more to say ...

+ Online dating and what are you looking for?—One of the biggest vanilla dating sites online did a survey recently a...

+ What would you do?—So this is my first ever experience meeting someone from an “adu...

+ One more gallery from Vegas!—Copyright © 2013 Speak Sexy. This Feed is for personal non-commer...

+ What happens in Vegas… is right here!—Here’s another gallery from the AVN Awards in Las Vegas.  Some s...

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As of 6/19/13 8:34am. Last new 3/1/13 3:28pm.  Score: 2669