+ (from: anonymous) Body Shots—He walks into the bedroom and notices a crisp white sheet covering the...

+ (from: Rubina) Slapping Party—“I feel like slapping this dumbhead,” Meg says while sippi...

+ (from: Subbie) Master and I—As my purse is sitting on the desk in front of me, I hear the beeps fr...

+ (from: Rubina) Disciplined—From the first occasion when I got corporal punishment, the girls in m...

+ (from: Rubina) Mistakes—Comments: I am an assiduous clerk, working together with three other g...

+ (from: anonymous) Mind Controlled For Sex!—I’ve had this fantasy for a long time, ever since someone in my ...

+ (from: anonymous) Rough fantasy—I have a wonderful relationship with a wonderful boyfriend who treats ...

+ (from: Holly) Hubby told me to write my dirtiest fantasy—My hubby found this site looking for bondage pics. He decided I need t...

+ (from: anonymous) Darkness—“From now on you are not allowed to say a word,” he tells ...

+ (from: Nena) Meeting Tilda (part 1)—I know she had been watching me. I could feel it every time I had my b...

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As of 9/10/10 2:16pm. Last new 8/4/10 12:05pm.  Score: 4351

+ 19 and Perfect Boobs—My primary partner and I had been togetehr and monogamous for 7 years....

+ My Wife Doesn’t Understand Me—“I’m in a mid-life crisis, I guess.  The passion is out of my life and...

+ Handling Jealousy: How to Fuck Up—I’ve been seeing more than the usual amount of discussion about jealou...

+ Patient Griselda, or, Minding the Gap—Mama Java is lounging on the beach right now.  Well, okay RIGHT NOW, I...

+ Want to be valued? Value YOU!—I need advice. My girl and I began exploring the “lifestyle̶...

+ You’re All Fucking Idiots—About seven or eight years ago, I was unemployed over a summer.  Well,...

+ Ask the Misanthrope: Coming Out as Poly—Dear Polyamorous Misanthrope, I recently started a relationship with a...

+ Ask the Misanthrope: Confused and Need Help—This letter is an edited highlights version – just for clarity’s sake:...

+ Three Conversations for Polyamorous Intimacy—Let’s talk about relationship conversations for a moment.  When you’re...

+ The One Penis Policy—Many moons ago, I ran across a term that just tickled the hell out of ...

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As of 9/10/10 2:16pm. Last new 9/8/10 5:28pm.  Score: 2357

+ Poly Weekly #232: Who gets to be the primary?—Who's the primary? Email polyweekly@gmail.com, Twitter polyweekly, cal...

+ Poly Weekly #231: Poly and the media—Poly and the media--how to deal with reporters and media coverage, a p...

+ Poly Weekly #230: Kink and poly mix—Kink and poly--how do they mix? Email polyweekly@gmail.com, call 206-2...

+ Poly Weekly #229: Mark Yu: bondage & poly in Portland—Mark Yu of Jade Gate Studio, rope bondage dude and poly guy. Email pol...

+ Poly Weekly #228: Does poly cause atheism?—Irreligion: does poly create atheists? Joreth cohosts. Email polyweekl...

+ Poly Weekly #227: Black Box Republic—Sam Lawrence and April of new sex-positive community site, Black Box R...

+ Poly Weekly #226: How to choose a partner—How to choose/vet a poly partner. Email polyweekly@gmail.com, call 206...

+ Poly Weekly #225: Modern Poly Fundraiser—Postmodern poly! Email polyweekly@gmail.com, call 206-202-POLY, Twitte...

+ Poly Weekly #224: Modern Poly—The new Modern Poly activist website; poly for the holidays. Email pol...

+ Poly Weekly #223: Communicating while angry & Realism in relationships—Communication while angry and realism in relationships. Email polyweek...

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As of 9/10/10 2:16pm. Last new 3/9/10 1:11am.  Score: 1316

+ Canada: Court case attracts wide attention to polyamory— [Author: noreply@blogger.com (Alan)] [Category: Canada, legal, activi...

+ We're worse than Warren Jeffs! And we steal children!— [Author: noreply@blogger.com (Alan)] [Category: critics of poly]

+ Germany: Giant nude puppy pile on newsmagazine cover, re the West's poly future— [Author: noreply@blogger.com (Alan)] [Category: Europe, Deutsch]

+ Wonder Woman's poly origin receiving more attention— [Author: noreply@blogger.com (Alan)] [Category: history]

+ Sex at Dawn, quickie version— [Author: noreply@blogger.com (Alan)]

+ "Queer Polyamory for Lesbians"— [Author: noreply@blogger.com (Alan)] [Category: gay/bi]

+ Objecting to "Polyamory Chic"— [Author: noreply@blogger.com (Alan)]

+ "Why Do People Choose Polyamory?"— [Author: noreply@blogger.com (Alan)] [Category: Deborah Anapol]

+ Upsurge of poly in the French media— [Author: noreply@blogger.com (Alan)] [Category: Français]

+ "Help, our daughter came out poly!"— [Author: noreply@blogger.com (Alan)] [Category: coming out, advice co...

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As of 9/10/10 2:16pm. Last new 9/10/10 12:42am.  Score: 1048

+ Cheating and Sex at Dawn: The Prehistoric Origins of Modern Sexuality—I've witnessed or experienced cheating from just about every perspecti...

+ Oprah Seeks a Triad!—We've known for a long time that the Oprah Winfrey Show was going to f...

+ My Videos on Poly/Mono Relationships and Resolving Jealousy on KinkAcademy.com—Earlier this year I had the pleasure and privilege of making education...

+ Cheating: It's Not the Sex, It's the Lying - Jenny Block on FOXNews.com—The last two years for Jenny Block must have surely been an exhiliarat...

+ MTV Returns for Follow Up with Gay Quad in Charlotte—What an interesting development!  Last year MTV's True Life episo...

+ Hooray! Another Lambda Literary Award for Polyamory—Congratulations to Australian researcher and author Dr. Maria Pallotta...

+ Polyamory on Starz Series Party Down—So lately I've been getting into a new ensemble comedy series on the S...

+ The Pinky Song by Alicyn Packard—Healthy sexuality comes in many forms, and everything I post here happ...

+ Polygarol!—Just came across this and love it! Fourth wife indeed. Love the imag...

+ Personal Stories on Polyamory and Compersion on Radio Netherlands Worldwide—This just in.  Executive Director Robyn Trask and her partner, Ma...

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As of 9/10/10 2:16pm. Last new 8/13/10 5:19pm.  Score: 721

+ we need to look for solutions to the problem of jealousy—I was on the couch today, nursing a prodigious hangover, when up on my...

+ rant: on men being more dominant—So you may have noticed I play submissive to men.  Lately I am trying ...

+ summer, drinks, and pretty girls—I found some pictures.  Everyone loves pictures!  Here I am recovering...

+ on the whore’s fallacy—From Dear Coke Talk, who may singlehandedly redeem the advice column g...

+ squirting solutions—This entry brought to you by the idea that it is awesome to masturbate...

+ art of restraint—I had the good timing to be in San Francisco last week during one of M...

+ memories—Sometimes coming to from a faint is like floating out of the sweetest ...

+ stepladder—I wrote this back in September in the long wake of my breakup with the...

+ better weather—We were headed to Kinkfest and I was well-rested, fed, and flirty.  I ...

+ so, hey, it’s been a while—I suspect a little self-awareness is the death knell for many bloggers...

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As of 9/10/10 2:17pm. Last new 8/11/10 6:06pm.  Score: 4460

+ I was reminded yesterday by a friend that I haven'...—I was reminded yesterday by a friend that I haven't posted to this jou...

+ Get your very own poster of the sex map!—Get your very own poster of the sex map!Available for pre order now:

+ — Find out where I've journeyedon the Map of Human Sexuality!Or ge...

+ bzz bzz bzz (that's busy as a bee) get your mind out of the gutter! (or not)—I've been so busy *doing* things lately I haven't had much time t...

+  I was just struck by an amusing thought. Whe...— I was just struck by an amusing thought. When I don't know how t...

+ Trying to figure out if something is normal or ...—Trying to figure out if something is normal or not. I'm pretty sure it...

+ Oh - I don't think i've specifically mentioned ...—Oh - I don't think i've specifically mentioned it but I am now screeni...

+ I want to be beaten. It's been  almost a mont...—I want to be beaten. It's been  almost a month. Hopefully I'll ge...

+ *WANT* —*WANT*  http://www.blowfish.com/catalog/toys/nonreal_dildos.html#...

+ A fantasy—Posted at the request of.. someone special.  One variant of ...

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As of 9/10/10 2:17pm. Last new 8/28/09 9:20pm.  Score: 3262

+ There's a lot of anger here.—It's been a stressful night. For various reasons, the monkey was supp...

+ Losing It—The Monkey has been struggling with "freak out" attacks for as long as...

+ So, an update...—I know the monkey had started to (on paper) write an entry, but I'm he...

+ reestablishing/reconnecting—The Top put my collar back on two nights ago, after shaving the unders...

+ I've been wrong before: The Sleepover Conundrum—Note: It's late, and I'm doing stream of consciousness here, so this m...

+ Feelings I'd rather not deal with—As mentioned in our last entry, the monkey and I are trying to adapt t...

+ being a poly (in practice) slave—We haven't made any public posts lately, but there have been several p...

+ Last night the Top got very upset about the amount...—Last night the Top got very upset about the amount of clutter we have ...

+ emotionally overwhelmed—Since the hit and run incident I've been feeling rather drained emotio...

+ locking collar adventures in the trauma center—As some of you know, the Top and I were on the hit end of a hit and ru...

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As of 9/10/10 2:17pm. Last new 8/29/10 4:29pm.  Score: 2321

+ Sister Dee Vs. Luna-Vary at Navy Yard—After a long online flirtation along the lines of "I like your look we...

+ Goddess Shea—Finally got a chance to rig and shoot Shea while visiting her over at ...

+ Suspension of Opioid Video—Some video shot with my 5DII and 135 f/2 - Natural light ISO 3200 - co...

+ Opioid—I had a chance to shoot with the lovely Opioid from Deviant Art and a ...

+ I Now Return You To Your Normal Program—After no updates or updates with video I decided to take a second to p...

+ Ball And Chain—the other song i recorded from the show...thanks Koan and LC for makin...

+ Social Distortion Reach For The Sky—Social Distortion playing one of my faves in Atlantic City - 5D with 1...

+ Amanda Taylor—I had a great time roaming the streets of NYC this past Monday night.....

+ Abandoned Buildings—Had a chance to do some more urban exploring the past few days and was...

+ Chocolate Brownie—so this week i got to shoot the delicious Chocolate Brownie in some ro...

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As of 9/10/10 2:17pm. Last new 12/5/09 3:45pm.  Score: 2054

+ Forms of Power—A post here just got a very interesting comment. I'm going to reproduc...

+ Irritating crap! ;-)—I was just poking around the blogosphere and completely by accident ca...

+ The Nature of Abuse—There's a very, very old thread over at Nine Deuce's on BDSM that has ...

+ Thinky comments....—Just got an interesting comment on a rather old post, so I thought I'd...

+ theory, kink, and feminism—I got an interesting comment on my recent post and I thought I should ...

+ Pulling out a comment—This was buried in the comments in the Respect, Again post and I figur...

+ Respect again—xposted from my lji'm too heartsick to excerpt from it... but guys, re...

+ research and knowledge—In the comments to my last post, I've been called by an anonymous comm...

+ More on anger...—This is really just a continuation of the last "My, that was angry, hu...

+ I wish I had...—a coherent response to this:Joan Kelly January 17, 2010 at 7:...

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As of 9/10/10 2:18pm. Last new 7/11/10 12:05pm.  Score: 1746

+ and just in case you thought I was slipping..—Fuck yeah (my boot, her hand, one helluva camping trip.. ). Photo by ...

+ let there be no wasted moments—If you have time on your hands, don't be anxious.  Fill each moment wi...

+ casual sex along the way—I've been musing about casual sex and where it fits within the poly sp...

+ blessing upon entering a new relationship—May my* becoming part of your* life: - bring you pleasure, because pl...

+ 10 reasons why you should appreciate your secondary partners:—- they have time for you, even though you don't always have time for t...

+ poly homemaking tip—How do you have your cake and eat it too? I've been asked this quest...

+ meta-moresomes—I have an extraordinary amount of gratitude for the couples who have o...

+ happy birthday to me—44 isn't looking half bad... ;) [Author: kiki] [Category: birthday]

+ bedposts—photo by ItalErian [Author: kiki] [Category: art, erotica]

+ epitoMe— [Author: kiki] [Category: poly]

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As of 9/10/10 2:18pm. Last new 9/7/10 2:41am.  Score: 1331

+ Upcoming Events—London Ontario Fire Conclave (thats including me!) upcoming performanc...

+ BDSM Bloopers—Things have been way too serious and intellectual like around here lat...

+ Post Mortem—I never ever do what I am about to do: publicly talk about the managem...

+ The Special Thing—One of the main ones that has become a recurrent theme in my life over...

+ Mind Fucks—Back in the day when I had a very different type of profile, one of th...

+ Leather Families—At its most basic and simple, a Leather Family is nothing more than a ...

+ The Power of Context—'...many of the truths we cling to depend greatly on our own point of ...

+ Informed Consent—Consent isnt the be all and end all of the negotiation process. As a t...

+ The Allure of Fisiting—Recently a friend thought that I had written an article on fisting and...

+ Devotion—I thought I knew what wanted from a submissive, from a partner. Thing...

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As of 9/10/10 2:18pm. Last new 8/20/10 10:19am.  Score: 408

+ Tolerate, accept, respect, and celebrate sexual variety—A most excellent sentiment: I really like kinky people. Sex positivity...

+ An erotic image of crucifixion—Here is a peek into our creative process. We are exploring the idea of...

+ Informed insight into polymorphous perversity—I’m sometimes surprised by just how quickly BDSM and fetish are ...

+ Pussy flogging and the Magic Wand—Then, just for fun, he took the Magic Wand (on High of course) and mer...

+ Sunday porn update #5—Like previous weeks, here’s the updates from last week for all o...

+ e[lust] #19—Photo courtesy of Emmy Welcome to e[lust] - Your source for sexual int...

+ It’s legal to have sex in the park—A postcard from a more enlightened world: My friends tell me that in t...

+ Naked in a bookshop—We went to our favourite secondhand bookshop. I usually feel comfortab...

+ This space is special—This is how we feel about our Black Room too: I have heavy curtains ov...

+ The sheer indecency of what we are doing—I stand almost naked before his eyes, and before the eyes of the world...

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As of 9/10/10 2:18pm. Last new 9/9/10 12:26pm.  Score: 367

+ Release—The latest issue of F/lthy Gorgeous Th/ngs, which is Release, went liv...

+ Modern Love and Legendary Cocks—Many thanks to Madeline for Fleshbotting my Legendary Cocks post (writ...

+ Cock Love ii. Tales of Legendary Cocks.—I just had sex with the most phenomenal cock I've ever met.I say 'cock...

+ F/lthy Gorgeous Th/ngs—Without further ado, allow me to introduce:filthygorgeousthings.comIf ...

+ Open letter to photographers—I just received an email yesterday from a photographer, the likes of w...

+ Savage lust please—debauchette and I are looking for reader submissions for a couple of a...

+ Getting back in touch—Hello there.I've been awfully remiss in writing lately. debauchette a...

+ Natural birth control—Question: Which method of birth control is 99.9% effective (actually ...

+ Saddlebacking defined—The verdict is in. Saddlebacking sad•dle•back•ing \ˈsa-dəl-ˈba-kiŋ\ v...

+ To fuckbuddy or not fuckbuddy—I'm torn on this issue.I prefer to: 1) fall in love or 2) have flings ...

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As of 9/10/10 2:18pm. Last new 8/28/09 9:20pm.  Score: 2980

+ Belle de Jour—Belle de Jour is the pen name of Brooke Magnanti, a UK-based writer an...

+ Belle de Jour is the—Belle de Jour is the nom de plume of Brooke Magnanti, a UK-based write...

+ Belle de Jour is the nom de plume of Brooke Magnan...—Belle de Jour is the nom de plume of Brooke Magnanti, a UK-based write...

+ Belle's Guide to W...—Belle's Guide to Women... another installment in the very occasional s...

+ So, an few updates... am going on holiday soon, lo...—So, an few updates... am going on holiday soon, looking forward to 'ge...

+ So, an few updates... Have written—So, an few updates...Have written a piece on the successful Simon Sing...

+ I'll be running the Sheffield Half Marathon on Apr...—I'll be running the Sheffield Half Marathon on April 25th to benefit S...

+ ObNotRant: Things are good at home with T. ...—ObNotRant: Things are good at home with T. Sex is great. Life's tolera...

+ For a long time, I've been a geek about, well, loa...—For a long time, I've been a geek about, well, loads of things (the pa...

+ At school, the physics teacher had a quote on one ...—At school, the physics teacher had a quote on one of the pinboards in ...

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As of 9/10/10 2:18pm. Last new 4/28/10 4:01am.  Score: 1842

+ New Zealand Fetish Ball—Oh the joys and hopes!New Zealand has a Fetish Ball coming up! Li...

+ Burlesque Competition Video—YAY!!! Thanks to a pal for taking this video, and recently upload...

+ Midori is a great kisser....—I dream vivid dreams, and strange yet telling, dreams. Apparently my i...

+ Midori is a great kisser....—I dream vivid dreams, and strange yet telling, dreams. Apparently my i...

+ DOKKKTOOOOR ALISON, In the HOUSE—HOT DAMN.... I'm going to do it... post the strange one on the 'f...

+ OH YESSS, PS—Think HOOTERS is something??There's an energy drink here with a r...

+ Magical Workings!—Wow, did that FUCK YOU ever work!Not that I said "fuck you&q...

+ Our own lyrics—Reading a really powerful, deeply honest post has made me think about ...

+ Impromptu Flogging Workshop—Young nightclub attached to a party-bus type backpackers. Lots of...

+ Sex Saviour—At least maybe for some Queenstownians....I've got them reeling with a...

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As of 9/10/10 2:18pm. Last new 9/18/09 4:13pm.  Score: 1724

+ ASHA's "Ask the Experts"— [Author: amy@embodiedsexuality.com (Amy Stapleford)] [Category: women...

+ When your partner has ADD, part V: stimulant drugs— [Author: amy@embodiedsexuality.com (Amy Stapleford)] [Category: women...

+ When your partner has ADD, part IV: mental and emotional stimulation— [Author: amy@embodiedsexuality.com (Amy Stapleford)] [Category: women...

+ When your partner has ADD, part III: changing positions— [Author: amy@embodiedsexuality.com (Amy Stapleford)] [Category: women...

+ When your partner has ADD, part II: touch— [Author: amy@embodiedsexuality.com (Amy)] [Category: women, sex, puss...

+ When your partner has ADD, part I: sexual values— [Author: amy@embodiedsexuality.com (Amy)] [Category: women, sex, dati...

+ Questions about Sexual Health— [Author: amy@embodiedsexuality.com (Amy)] [Category: sex, dating, ann...

+ Asperger Syndrome in Relationships— [Author: amy@embodiedsexuality.com (Amy)] [Category: dating, Asperger...

+ Big, Beautiful Women— [Author: amy@embodiedsexuality.com (Amy)] [Category: women, sex, attr...

+ Seeking Interviewees with AD/HD— [Author: amy@embodiedsexuality.com (Amy)] [Category: ADD]

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As of 9/10/10 2:18pm. Last new 8/9/10 10:44am.  Score: 1477

+ Off to the Playa—Photo by Mac Well, this is it: I’m off to spend a week in the de...

+ Misty ices her nipples for the web cam— Back to Miscellaneous Gallery Back to all photo galleries

+ A peek under Misty’s dress— Back to Mechanic’s Gallery Back to all photo galleries

+ Identity Crisis: The end of an era—Original photo by Mac In the past year or so I’ve been going through s...

+ Webcam boobs— This is a webcam photo from about 3 or 4 years ago when I was remind...

+ The Other Complication—Original photo by Mac Sometimes I feel like my love life is just one b...

+ Diva Boy— .adHeadline {font: bold 10pt Arial; text-decoration: underline; ...

+ Frustration—Original photo by Lucky “I’ve never gotten so many handjob...

+ The Promise—Original photo by Lucky …I was basically wrecked all day long an...

+ Fishnet treasure— Back to Mechanic’s Gallery Back to all photo galleries ...

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As of 9/10/10 2:18pm. Last new 8/28/10 1:41pm.  Score: 1331

+ It's been a month since I last updated this blog, ...—It's been a month since I last updated this blog, and I apologize for ...

+ 5 things you should never say before, during, or immediately following sexual intercourse.—Sometimes at night, I meet up with my best friend of 20 years to bulls...

+ Fun Factory Bimini Ocean—Trying to masturbate in my family's house without getting caught is a ...

+ I didn't ask for this.—I stumbled across Elodie's post, "It's Not Your Fault," on Twitter whi...

+ Family Life—This is what I have been reduced to: hiding my sex toys in bags under ...

+ I'm back!—I got back in from all of my traveling at about 2am last night (this m...

+ HNT—I tried to do this Chatroulette style, but I couldn't take it seriousl...

+ Leeeeeaving on a jet plaaaaaaaane...—In 24 hours, I will be hopping on to a teeny tiny jet to fly to my gra...

+ Body Image—According to a few people, my body proportions are "perfect." Accordin...

+ Wahl vs. Eroscillator vs. Hitachi—I've got a new video up at EdenFantasys.com, available on the pages fo...

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As of 9/10/10 2:18pm. Last new 8/23/10 8:30pm.  Score: 1134

+ spandex & lucite shoes: part 42, the last days of FleshCo—Last week, I wrote something brand new and read it. It's the tail ...

+ two new pieces, free and loose, as women were meant to be— So it's August, and it's hot, and I have two new pieces in Fi...

+ close personal naked friends (no benefits)—A cigar may just be a cigar, but a hot chick holding an AK47 is a phal...

+ barriers, plastic and mental—On the heels of the 4th of July, here's a reason to prolong celebr...

+ just ask hester prynne—  Slut-shaming is a new term, but it’s an old premise. Being a ...

+ object lessons—  Last November, I stood dressed in my tattered skivvies for Mo...

+ more rejected tailpieces: fumbling deaf, dumb and blind—Sometimes even I find it hard to tell the truth. Sometimes the truth i...

+ miss remiss or links and things to feed the savage beasts—I have been lax. I’ve been remiss. I’ve been a bad blogger, and I shou...

+ a meditation on why Dockers are a blight upon mankind—I've a new piece on Filthy Gorgeous Things, and in it I undress me...

+ sexually, i'm more of a denmark: a highly subjective book review—I’ve been trying to count how many times I’ve penned myself profiles f...

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As of 9/10/10 2:18pm. Last new 8/9/10 8:41pm.  Score: 1041

+ Short and Sweet—A hand on her hip. Fingers digging into flesh, grasping at bone. She g...

+ We Vibe II—The We Vibe was always a toy that interested me, but not the type of t...

+ Pleasurists #94— Slow Enough to Scream by wynnesome Welcome to Pleasurists, a round-up...

+ Happiness and Love, Totally Mutually Inclusive—I know, I know. A post with a title like that has potential to be all ...

+ Wildberry Cherry Incense—Continuing on the path of “and here’s something a little d...

+ Super Sexy Sucking Here—I love that Good Vibes allows reviewers to pick items for review or gi...

+ Sensual Cocoa & Goji Berry Cleansing Bath and Shower Gel—Thus far, I have really been satisfied by all the Intimate Organics pr...

+ All About the WordPress Database—A lot of my fellow bloggers and reviewers are using WordPress. Whether...

+ Pinwheel—The Wartenberg Wheel was originated a medical instrument used to test ...

+ Pleasurists #92— Abandoned Nude 4 by tiago13pereira Welcome to Pleasurists, a round-up...

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As of 9/10/10 2:18pm. Last new 9/10/10 2:16am.  Score: 743

+ Ancestors—Because I’m a curious person, I get to wondering about how sexua...

+ Positions of temptation—It can be difficult to find the time to check out everyone’s Wanton We...

+ Sociosexuality OE—How could I possibly not take a test that promises to tell me how prom...

+ Buck’s boots—Buck Angel was coming to Auckland Erotica Expo 2010. I was going to be...

+ Arousal—It can be difficult to find the time to check out everyone’s Wanton We...

+ Let’s have a parade—This weekend is Auckland’s Erotica Expo, and today – as th...

+ e[lust] #18— HNT Courtesy of Barefoot Dreamer – Photo by Jon H. Welcome to e...

+ Appreciation—It can be difficult to find the time to check out everyone’s Wanton ...

+ Ocean voices—Untitled 3, by Samantha Wolov No! She could feel it coming, and she di...

+ Latex Pet (on Set)—Last weekend I went to a 30th birthday celebration. I knew no-one exce...

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As of 9/10/10 2:18pm. Last new 9/4/10 4:47pm.  Score: 696

+ Hubby’s Confession: How I Meet Other Women—Many of you have asked me how my husband, a married man who has my per...

+ HNT. Pear.— I speak two languages, English… and Body. ~Mae West HAPPY HNT!...

+ Bed. Confession #510—Hubby and I have a bed that we love. I write in it, propped up against...

+ Anything But. Confession #509—It was 7:15am when I received an invitation for a morning shag from Do...

+ Stuff—Today I have decided not to post a loquacious, opinionated, contentiou...

+ HNT. Risk.— There came a time when the risk to remain tight in the bud was more ...

+ Body Language. Confession #508— I watched as she walked by, the expression on her face decipherable, ...

+ Sadie’s Thoughts on Cheating. Confession #507—Cheating has been on my mind lately for a number of reasons. The revol...

+ Friday Q & A. Avoiding an STD.—I received this question from a woman who opened up her marriage about...

+ HNT. Liberated.— I want women to be liberated and still be able to have a nice ass and...

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As of 9/10/10 2:18pm. Last new 9/10/10 12:27pm.  Score: 218

+ Greta's Seattle Event, Sunday Sept. 12—My Seattle event for Sunday Sept. 12 is finally set! The Seattle Athei...

+ Greta's Pacific NW Speaking Tour, Sept. 9-13 -- And Brief Blog Break—IMPORTANT UPDATES! The location for the Reed College talk has been cha...

+ The People I've Slept With— A young woman is talking to her newborn baby. "I love sex," she says...

+ Friday Cat Blogging: Violet Helping Me Write—And now, a cute picture of our cat. This is Violet, helping me write ...

+ Atheist Meme of the Day: No Right to Not Have Your Beliefs Questioned— Today's Atheist Meme of the Day. Pass this on; or don't; or edit it a...

+ Atheist Meme of the Day: Unexplained Does Not Mean Supernatural— Today's Atheist Meme of the Day. Pass this on; or don't; or edit it a...

+ Skepticism As a Discipline—This piece was originally published on AlterNet. Why does skepticism...

+ Atheist Meme of the Day: Religion Is Not Just a Metaphor— Today's Atheist Meme of the Day. Pass this on; or don't; or edit it a...

+ Lady Gaga: Music Videos As Porn—This piece was originally published on CarnalNation. I realize that ...

+ Atheist Meme of the Day: Criticism Is Not Intolerance— Today's Atheist Meme of the Day. Pass this on; or don't; or edit it a...

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As of 9/10/10 2:18pm. Last new 9/8/10 2:45pm.  Score: 195

+ Food Play, Part 3 – Sweet Sensations—Note: This sex tip is part 3 of a three-part Food and Sex special cont...

+ Food Play, Part 2 – Vegetable Matters—Note: This sex tip is part 2 of a three-part Food and Sex special cont...

+ Food Play, Part 1 – Dessert!—Note: This sex tip is part 1 of a three-part Food and Sex special cont...

+ Tokens: Keeping yourself in a sexy mood.—This week’s tip is a neat little way to make yourself feel sexy ...

+ New respect for an old toy— When folks first start exploring things like paddling and spanking an...

+ Trying Something New by Abandoning What You Know—This week’s sex tip is a bit counter-intuitive, because I’...

+ Negotiating New Needs: What if I am Submissive and my Partner Isn’t Into BDSM?—Help! I am married. I am a submissive into BDSM. My husband is not int...

+ Negotiating New Needs: What if I am Submissive and my Partner Isn’t?—Help! I am married. I am a submissive into BDSM. My husband is not int...

+ We’ve moved!—I’m sure you’ve probably noticed that there haven’t ...

+ Let’s Get Naked!—I’m a huge fan of sex games (as you can imagine, considering tha...

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As of 9/10/10 2:18pm. Last new 9/6/10 12:30pm.  Score: 2305

+ qDot goes to Europe. Again.—Well, I’m off to Austria and the Netherlands to give some talks ...

+ Mojowijo - The Wiimote Vibrator, Round 2—Mojowijo - The Wiimote Vibrator, Round 2 A few years ago, we posted a...

+ Sputniko! and the Penis Cybernetique—Sputniko! and the Penis Cybernetique I originally found out about Spu...

+ IRC #slashdong - Now on Freenode—IRC #slashdong - Now on Freenode I’ve been on IRC for far, ...

+ Deldo - The Sex Toy and Teledildonics Mode for Emacs—Deldo - The Sex Toy and Teledildonics Mode for Emacs If it weren̵...

+ Erotic HCI at NordiCHI 2010—Erotic HCI Workshop at NordiCHI 2010 Call For Papers Who wants to go ...

+ A bunch of links - 2010-05-10 Edition—I never really wanted to get to the point on this site where I just re...

+ Best Unboxing Ever—There’s a certain set of us out there that sort of have, um, pro...

+ Tactile Mind - Haptic Porn—Prefacing this with credit, I found this thanks to a post by Cory Silv...

+ In which qDot reveals how much of a nerd he is...—Sure. It’s been months since I’ve posted anything anywhere...

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As of 9/10/10 2:18pm. Last new 9/8/10 7:50am.  Score: 2525

+ Daisy Fuentes advises women not to reveal too much—I saw on Guanabee that Daisy Fuentes told Siempre Mujer magazine (in S...

+ PinPointsX tries to fill the void left by Craigslist adult services—Craiglist has removed its adult services section after an impressively...

+ Sex-tech communication and development jobs at ISIS—Passing it on … Internet Sexual Information Services (ISIS) ISI...

+ Come see me in Austin, TX on the 17th— I’ll be at the Lanai Lounge on Friday, September 17, from 6pm t...

+ Longevity linked to emotional intelligence—If you have stepped outside of the rules of “normal” for y...

+ Do you Like me? If yes, check this box.—I guess now I know why no one tries to pick me up in Facebook. Accordi...

+ iPhone + FaceTime + OhMiBod = Cybersex under the covers—Debby Herbenick gives the iPhone 4 and FaceTime video chat a turgid, t...

+ People with more sex partners use iPhones, not Droids—According to Mashable, Dating site OkCupid reports that among its subs...

+ Momentum 2010: social media, sexuality, and feminism— This looks like an interesting event, similar to Sex 2.0 (or perhaps ...

+ I gotcher sex toy discount code right here—I noticed that polyamory author Jenny Block is gettin’ all coupo...

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As of 9/10/10 2:18pm. Last new 9/9/10 12:47am.  Score: 1274