+ 19 and Perfect Boobs—My primary partner and I had been togetehr and monogamous for 7 years.  One day she started chatting up and exbf form 15 years back, went and saw him,...

+ My Wife Doesn’t Understand Me—“I’m in a mid-life crisis, I guess.  The passion is out of my life and I’m looking for something more.   My wife doesn’t understand me.” Any polyamoro...

+ Handling Jealousy: How to Fuck Up—I’ve been seeing more than the usual amount of discussion about jealousy on various poly boards lately, so I figure this might be a little topical to ...

+ Patient Griselda, or, Minding the Gap—Mama Java is lounging on the beach right now.  Well, okay RIGHT NOW, I’m probably getting sunscreen on squirming little children, collecting bea...

+ Want to be valued? Value YOU!—I need advice. My girl and I began exploring the “lifestyle” about 2 years ago.  At some point mid way, I discovered that I was having ner...

+ You’re All Fucking Idiots—About seven or eight years ago, I was unemployed over a summer.  Well, not so much unemployed as I was looking for “Real Jobs” through a temp agency a...

+ Ask the Misanthrope: Coming Out as Poly—Dear Polyamorous Misanthrope, I recently started a relationship with a person who has never been poly before. We’ve been dating for a little ove...

+ Ask the Misanthrope: Confused and Need Help—This letter is an edited highlights version – just for clarity’s sake: I am attracted to the idea of polyamory for the spiritual implications, perhaps...

+ Three Conversations for Polyamorous Intimacy—Let’s talk about relationship conversations for a moment.  When you’re polyamorous, you’re going to have them more often just because you have more of...

+ The One Penis Policy—Many moons ago, I ran across a term that just tickled the hell out of me, both for its succinctness and its applicability to many polyamorous situatio...

+ Ask the Misanthrope: Left Out—A New Reader Asks: I have been seeing a guy,living and working with him for about 4 months. He introduced me to the idea of polyamory. I had honestly ...

+ Sexual Tastes—If you have a sexual taste and think you’re the only person who has it, you’re probably wrong. If you have a sexual taste and think that e...

+ Ask the Misanthrope: Jealousy?—A Faithful Reader Asks: My husband and I have been discussing polyamory over the past couple months. I feel comfortable with the idea, and I know we ...

+ The Goddess of Java asks YOU!—I got so many thoughtful and interesting answers to last week’s question, I just had to roll with it again.  Thanks for everyone who answered. F...

+ Love Has No Boundaries—This time, I’d like to hear from anyone that wants to sound off on the subject. I see the phrase “Love has no boundaries” frequently...

+ We’ve Done It, Now Let Me Fix Your Life—There’s a popular situation in sitcoms and romantic comedies.  There’ll be this couple — one of them[1] being presented as having th...

+ Tips To Couples Looking to Add an Additional Person Into Their Relationship—This column is written by guest author Holly Bernabe.  She wrote it to try to help people posting sex or relationship ads to polyamorous discussion li...

+ Poly Parenting 101—One of the sad facts of being an alternative lifestyler of any sort is in this political climate, you’re liable to be labeled a dangerous pervert. For...

+ How to Score with Women—This column may come across as slightly sexist.  I’m sorry for that, but it’s a thread I’ve been pulling that I’m having a hard time getting out of my...

+ Repost: The Holiday Spirit—Originally published at http://www.polyfamilies.com/misanthrope20041225.html Well, honestly? I think a lot of people who complain about not having an...

+ Coming Out for the Holidays—The holiday season is fast approaching and many people often wonder how to handle alternative lifestyles such as polyamory and holidays.    I’d ...

+ Ten Tips to Great Poly Relationships—This is my top ten things you can do for great multiple relationships. 1. Don’t try to be a “good” poly person. If you’ve been...

+ Universal Principles—The Polyamorous Misanthrope was supposed to be a weekly column. It was for awhile and then I started drying up for topics.  Why?  Well, as I study pol...

+ Ask the Misanthrope: Careful with that Axe, Eugene—I am married (7 years), with boyfriend (year and a half), who also has another girlfriend (a few months). They are having trouble getting along; it se...

+ I Thought We Were POLY—Polyamory is about love and intimacy, right?  So poly people are the lovingest, mostest intimate cuddlemuffins out there.  If you find someone wants t...

+ Respectful Communication and Mind-Reading—Not too long ago, I was in the living room working idly on some material.   The Prince was in his room on a teleconference with a client.  Our son was...

+ Perspective: Grab Some — it’s FREE!—This guest column is by Edward Martin, III This is something I don’t understand. If I say “There’s no such thing as a white pigeon” and so...

+ Ask the Misanthrope: Secondary Rights—I’d like to see a column on “secondary” relationships and/or on the concept of how setting boundaries in a multi-adult relationship ...

+ Wishful Thinking Doesn’t Work—I don’t usually rant at monogamous people.  Polyamorous people in general provide more than enough rant fodder and idiocy to be going on with.  ...

+ Prove Me Wrong—I recently made the assertion in my infinite wisdom and exquisitely refined good taste that in general, poly poetry is Vogon poetry. So, here’s ...

+ When It’s Working—I know I haven’t been updating much.  There are several reasons for this.  The biggest is that one can only say, “Don’t be a fucking...

+ No Means No—Hail, O Caffeinated one! Dear Goddess – here’s my situation: My husband and I have been together for four years, and married for two. He k...

+ The Mistress Paradigm—Dear Goddess: I have a couple of questions about navigating my poly relationship and I’d love your advice. First, a bit of background. My hu...

+ Ask the Misanthrope: How to Meet People—I have a question for you and I’ll give you a bit of a background on my history with poly in order to help you understand my quandry. After abou...

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