- + He’s Back—Y’know, the guy on Tindr.
Actually, he returned a day later. I was confused when he popped up again, but swiped right.
He sent a message right a...
- + 6 Picture Mistakes Men Make on Tinder—Having spent a little bit of time on Tinder over these last few weeks, I’ve found myself both frustrated and befuddled about some of the photos ...
- + Between the Shores: Erotica with Consent—
Between the Shores: Erotica with Consent
Often, in erotica, consent is implied but not necessarily discussed. In poor erotica,...
- + My 12-Hour Tinder “Boyfriend”—I once read an article about a woman who had a boyfriend for a weekend. She met him, he came back to her place in NYC. They had sex, watched TV, playe...
- + Best Sex Writing of the Year, Volume 1—
Best Sex Writing of the Year, Volume 1
from Cleis Press
Another year, another edition of Best Sex Writing. Actually, this anthology of es...
- + 7 Fun and Sexy Costumes for the Bedroom—Thanks to Jon for this guest post!
Sexy costumes are a great for introducing role-play into the bedroom, acting out a certain fantasy or just a fun an...
- + OVO S2—
OVO S2 Rechargeable Lay-On Vibrator
I cannot help but compare Ovo’s S2 to a boat. A good-lookin’ but sinkable bo...
- + Female Sexuality: Redacted and Undefined?—There is a process I go through, a process with which most of us are familiar, every time I get a new device. Even reformatting my Android phone or sw...
- + Ugh—I’ve been sick for three weeks, and I’m just over it. I don’t want to test toys or blog about it. i don’t want to do anything ...
- + Save on Sex Toys This Memorial Day—Good Vibes
Good Vibes has a sliding scale going on. The more you spend, the more you save! What does that get you?
The Magic Wand Rechargearable for ...
- + Boss Dildo—
Boss Silicone Dildo
from Good vibes
I’m not sure I can describe how excited I was over the prospect over own the Boss dildo. I own the ...
- + Have Fun With New Toys and Partners – No Strings Attached—Guest post from Holly Rose
Sex toys and escorts are a great way of exploring your sexuality with no commitment. Right now, sex is all about you.
- + 12 Sex Toys I Need to Use More—It’s not that I do it on purpose, it’s just that I’m not very thoughtful about cycling through all my sex toys and accessories to ma...
- + Joyboxx—
Sex toy storage is such an interesting search. Many companies have tried to be the end-all and be-all of storage. Th...
- + Excuses—I know it’s been over a week, guys. I know I usually blog more often. I really want to. I’m just so.freaking.exhausted.
2015 — and i...
- + Wand Massagers Make it to the UK—A while back, I posted about how the Maxi Wand was headed to Australia, where Aussies would finally be able to own a wand style vibrator like the Hita...
- + UberKinky Rounded Handle Leather Flogger—
UberKinky Rounded Handle Leather Flogger
I think much of this is due to the hefty stainless steel handle. It creates a bal...
- + Virgin—He was a virgin. That was something I’d sworn I would never do. It felt so sex negative, judging someone based on their virginity. After all, it was a...
- + All The Things You’ve Given Me—In 2015, I am in the middle of a heartbreak. I know it will not last forever. I know that it may not be my greatest to date. And it may not be the gre...
- + Lovehoney Plus Size Adore Me Bustier—
Lovehoney Adore Me Bustier
You guys, I love black and red. Obviously. The color combination is great. Given that it’...
- + The Big Book of Domination Review + Giveaway—
The Big Book of Domination
Perhaps the single most noticeable way that The Big Book of Domination differs from The big Book of S...
- + Mona Wave—
Listen, guys. Lelo is trying really hard to be innovative. It’s not enough to make toys of silicone that are rech...
- + Five Head Wartenberg Wheel—
Five Head Wartenberg Wheel
The five heads work exactly the same as a single head — except there’s more. They...
- + She, Tigress—When my best friend talks about her marriage, it’s as though she’s describing life as a caged tiger in a zoo. But she wasn’t plucked...
- + My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging & Polyamory—
My Life on the Swingset
When I was initially approached by author and lifestyle swinger Cooper Beckett to review his ...
- + Judging His Cover—He was plain. There was nothing special about him. He was lanky with too much gut from years of drinking. His hair was thinning prematurely, and he tr...
- + Uberlube—
from Good Vibes
It must be hard being silicone lube in my possession. First, it sits on my counter or my table for a few days. Days...
- + My Sex Life Can Legally Vote—And marry. And it can drink in Japan.
That is, to say, I’ve been a consciously sexual being since I was around 8 years old. Give or take.
- + Bruce Jenner Might Be Trans And It’s None Of Your Business—I first heard rumors about Bruce Jenner possibly being transgender a few weeks ago. I didn’t give it any thought for a couple reasons:
- + Lelo Siri 2—
If you were to look at Siri 2 without the original to compare, you’d think they were exactly the same design. Thi...
- + No Pretenses—The other day I read a post by the wonderful, articulate and talented Rachel Kramer Bussel on Thought Catalog. I’ve read her tweets, her stories...
- + Things That Ensure I’ll Ignore Your Online Dating Profile—Maybe I’m too picky. Maybe I shouldn’t judge a book by its cover. Maybe I should understand how hard it is to write a dating profile. Afte...
- + The Big Book of Submission: 69 Kinky Tales—
The Big Book of Submission
There’s something to be said for a good book that you can’t put down after a story/cha...
- + Dear Carla Alcorn—Last night, I read about how your trans daughter killed herself. Then, I read any number of incorrect articles about how your “son,” your ...
- + 2014: The Best Of—Another year. Another couple dozen reviews of sex toys. There were fewer this year than the last. This might be due to me having more sex. Or perhaps ...
- + $100 Designer Intimates Giveaway—Designer Intimates was kind enough to send me more than a few items to review, and they’ve also offered to sponsor a giveaway for $100 credit to...
- + A Brand Spanking New Idea—Spank my pussy
“What?” my request seems to pull him into the present. “Why?” He seems to consider.
“Because it will feel good&...
- + Penthouse Variations on Oral—One of the newest books from Cleis Press, which has made me a very happy reviewer and reader this year, is “Penthouse Variations on Oral.”...
- + Lelo Ora 2—
Let me just start with this “Fuck the haters.”
Seriously. Fuck the haters.
Lelo’s Ora “oral sex ...
- + Designer Intimates Lingerie Review—
Jezebel, Felina and Paramour Lingerie
from Designer Intimates
Let me start this with a huge “Thank you” to the folks from Des...
- + Lovehoney Open Back Sheer Lace Panties with Straps—
Open Back Sheer Lace Panty with Straps
I purchased my first pair of “strap” or cage panties this summer. I dis...
- + In Defense of Legalized Sex Work—Amid all the terrible news lately, a slew of articles about several sex workers — and their clients — who were recently arrested popped up...
- + Tantus Silicone Fantasy Gag—
Tantus Silicone Fantasy Gag
My track record with Tantus toys hasn’t been so great. While others will rave about the di...
- + JO Hair Reduction Serum—
JO Hair Reduction Serum
from System Jo
Shame and exhaustion are the two things I feel when I think about how much time I must spend remov...
- + Heartbreak is Hell on the Sex Drive—Whenever one of my sexual relationships ends, I go through an awkward stage of adjustment. When I am sexually active with one person, I tend to includ...
- + Lelo Smart Wand Large—
Lelo Smart Wand Large
Lelo is certainly good at creating attractive products. The Smart Wands are perfect examples of this. Prett...
- + #BlackFriday Sex Toy Sales!—There’s no need to wait to treat yourself to an awesome new vibrator, dildo, erotic anthology or BDSM gear. I’ve gathered up information a...
- + Elegant Moments Leopard Print Chiffon Halter Style Babydoll—
Leopard Print Babydoll
It might be cliche, but I just love animal print. The subtle brown leopard print in this babydoll by ...
- + Svakom Gaga—
Sex toys and innovation.
Those words sounds really great when you put them together. Ind...
- + Love, Yourself—They say you have to love yourself before others can love you. Or maybe they say you need to love yourself first, before you can love another. And no ...
- + The Girls Bestie Vibe—
from Good Vibes
overwhelming regret upon using or opening a sex toy for the first time and knowing in...
- + JO So Fresh! Hygiene Cream for Women—
JO So Fresh! Hygiene Cream for Women
from System Jo
I generally like System Jo’s lubes and massage products, but my experience with ...
- + Why You Should Design Your Own Bondage Accessories—Wearing collars, cuffs or ankle restraints is often an expression of your style and personality if you’re into the bondage scene. Not everyone w...
- + Flirty Little Secret Pink Caviar Scrub With Pheromones—
Pink Caviar Scrub With Pheromones
I never thought I would try another Booty Parlor product if I’m being honest. The la...
- + Scandal Corset with Cuffs—
Scandal Corset with Cuffs
from OF Sex and Love Store
I’ve kept my eye out for the pieces in the Scandal line because I love love lo...
- + Best Sex Writing 2013—
Best Sex Writing 2013
I’ve been a fan of the Best Sex Writing series for years, The most recent edition is Best Sex Wri...
- + Svakom Leslie—
So let’s talk about the shape. Leslie is a gently curved vibrator that will provide subtle G-spot stimulati...
- + Wrapped Around Your Finger—
Wrapped Around Your FingerA Story of Submission
from Cleis Press
I don’t know that I’ve ever reviewed a full-length piece of ...
- + Uberkinky Bondage Tape—
UberKinky Bondage Tape
from Uber Kinky
I don’t often talk about my family, but I’d like to start this post with an anecdote. M...
- + The Wand Down Under—Whenever I have to describe the demographic of my blog, I quickly point out that readers come typically from English-speaking countries. Of course, th...
- + Ceramix No. 5 & 6—
Ceramix #5 and #6
from OSAL Store
I don’t typically combine reviews, but I’ve already written about a Ceramix dildo. I liked ...
As of 7/6/15 12:52pm. Last new 7/1/15 7:25pm. Score: 2024