- + Forms of Power—A post here just got a very interesting comment. I'm going to reproduce it here, and then make a few comments of my own."Why do we condemn the patriar...
- + Forms of Power—A post here just got a very interesting comment. I'm going to reproduce it here, and then make a few comments of my own."Why do we condemn the patriar...
- + Irritating crap! ;-)—I was just poking around the blogosphere and completely by accident came across a post from today that mentioned this blog. I'll be going about this a...
- + Irritating crap! ;-)—I was just poking around the blogosphere and completely by accident came across a post from today that mentioned this blog. I'll be going about this a...
- + The Nature of Abuse—There's a very, very old thread over at Nine Deuce's on BDSM that has recently been revived. I had been studiously ignoring it, as it pretty much repe...
- + The Nature of Abuse—There's a very, very old thread over at Nine Deuce's on BDSM that has recently been revived. I had been studiously ignoring it, as it pretty much repe...
- + Thinky comments....—Just got an interesting comment on a rather old post, so I thought I'd pull it out:I think people who ask questions like that are taking an unwarrante...
- + Thinky comments....—Just got an interesting comment on a rather old post, so I thought I'd pull it out:I think people who ask questions like that are taking an unwarrante...
- + theory, kink, and feminism—I got an interesting comment on my recent post and I thought I should dedicate a post to addressing it, though I strongly suspect that will disappoint...
- + theory, kink, and feminism—I got an interesting comment on my recent post and I thought I should dedicate a post to addressing it, though I strongly suspect that will disappoint...
- + Pulling out a comment—This was buried in the comments in the Respect, Again post and I figured it was best to give it a thread of its own, so here it is:greenspade said... ...
- + Pulling out a comment—This was buried in the comments in the Respect, Again post and I figured it was best to give it a thread of its own, so here it is:greenspade said... ...
- + Respect again—xposted from my lji'm too heartsick to excerpt from it... but guys, read this. please.http://rageagainstthemanchine.com/2009/02/07/please-somebody-com...
- + Respect again—xposted from my lji'm too heartsick to excerpt from it... but guys, read this. please.http://rageagainstthemanchine.com/2009/02/07/please-somebody-com...
- + research and knowledge—In the comments to my last post, I've been called by an anonymous commenter on singling out Joan Kelly. I understand the anonymous commenter's feeling...
- + research and knowledge—In the comments to my last post, I've been called by an anonymous commenter on singling out Joan Kelly. I understand the anonymous commenter's feeling...
- + More on anger...—This is really just a continuation of the last "My, that was angry, huh..." post, but I did want to include it because I'm blackly amused, and I promi...
- + More on anger...—This is really just a continuation of the last "My, that was angry, huh..." post, but I did want to include it because I'm blackly amused, and I promi...
- + I wish I had...—a coherent response to this:Joan Kelly January 17, 2010 at 7:15 pm Orlando, I feel like you must not unde...
- + I wish I had...—a coherent response to this:Joan Kelly January 17, 2010 at 7:15 pm Orlando, I feel like you must not unde...
- + Form and Content—(xposted from my LJ)I was perusing Scarleteen today and I came across this little bit from Hugo Schwyzer (who as many of you know, I do not always agr...
- + Form and Content—(xposted from my LJ)I was perusing Scarleteen today and I came across this little bit from Hugo Schwyzer (who as many of you know, I do not always agr...
- + New Blog: Topologies—Topologies is a new group blog written by three top/dominant women. Check it out. [Author: noreply@blogger.com (Dw3t-Hthr)] [Category: blogroll, begi...
- + New Blog: Topologies—Topologies is a new group blog written by three top/dominant women. Check it out. [Author: noreply@blogger.com (Dw3t-Hthr)] [Category: blogroll, begi...
- + Ooh, how did I miss this?—La Phalene muses on kink and gender:There’s a lot in this kink business to make the feminist in me froth at the mouth. And no, I’m not talking about t...
- + Ooh, how did I miss this?—La Phalene muses on kink and gender:There’s a lot in this kink business to make the feminist in me froth at the mouth. And no, I’m not talking about t...
- + I will be brief.—So there's a new comment over at an old post of Nine Deuce's:This whole BDSM thingy is crap. Seriously, anyone who likes being hit and cut and harmed ...
- + I will be brief.—So there's a new comment over at an old post of Nine Deuce's:This whole BDSM thingy is crap. Seriously, anyone who likes being hit and cut and harmed ...
- + Interesting conversation....—There's a guy over at Nine Deuce's comment thread here who's making some pretty damned rather creepy comments about BDSM affecting how he relates to h...
- + Interesting conversation....—There's a guy over at Nine Deuce's comment thread here who's making some pretty damned rather creepy comments about BDSM affecting how he relates to h...
- + I actually can't edit the link list here...—...but here's a useful link.Orlando C is collating results from studies of BDSM and has posted them here:www.kinkresearch.blogspot.comPersonally I'd l...
- + I actually can't edit the link list here...—...but here's a useful link.Orlando C is collating results from studies of BDSM and has posted them here:www.kinkresearch.blogspot.comPersonally I'd l...
- + A post!—I've been avoiding these kerfuffles as much as I can lately, and I think it's been good for me.However, a few people have been clamoring for my return...
- + A post!—I've been avoiding these kerfuffles as much as I can lately, and I think it's been good for me.However, a few people have been clamoring for my return...
- + Things That Are Just Bizarre—And Obviously False, Vol. Whatevertheheck: I don’t, for the record, think “external contact” with ejaculate for sexual purposes (or fellatio) is ...
- + Things That Are Just Bizarre—And Obviously False, Vol. Whatevertheheck: I don’t, for the record, think “external contact” with ejaculate for sexual purposes (or fellatio) is ...
- + Feminist acts and anti-feminist acts—ND is up to her usual tricks.I'm... not feeling like responding right now, really. These folks are very much a broken record about what they consider ...
- + Feminist acts and anti-feminist acts—ND is up to her usual tricks.I'm... not feeling like responding right now, really. These folks are very much a broken record about what they consider ...
- + Phantom of the Opera—xposted from my LJOoooof.Phantom of the Opera teaches girls bad, bad, orful thingz!Of course, to call it a two-and-a-half-hour musical about rape vast...
- + Phantom of the Opera—xposted from my LJOoooof.Phantom of the Opera teaches girls bad, bad, orful thingz!Of course, to call it a two-and-a-half-hour musical about rape vast...
- + Dear radical-leaning feminists...—...if your big thing is fighting for the really real actual empowerment of women (rather than the icky fake sparkly "empowerfulizing" of women)... why...
- + Dear radical-leaning feminists...—...if your big thing is fighting for the really real actual empowerment of women (rather than the icky fake sparkly "empowerfulizing" of women)... why...
- + More on feministing—I'm noticing that on this Feministing thread, a lot of people are bringing up how they experience kink as orientational. Basically they're saying "Hey...
- + More on feministing—I'm noticing that on this Feministing thread, a lot of people are bringing up how they experience kink as orientational. Basically they're saying "Hey...
- + Pervertables.—Hello! Bet you've forgotten I was even a co-host here, right? Long time no etc etc.Afraid I don't have anything too profound right now, more practic...
- + Pervertables.—Hello! Bet you've forgotten I was even a co-host here, right? Long time no etc etc.Afraid I don't have anything too profound right now, more practic...
- + And one more comment...—...on one of the bits at Feministing, here:becstar replied to Lumix : Actually I have just returned from doing a lot of...
- + And one more comment...—...on one of the bits at Feministing, here:becstar replied to Lumix : Actually I have just returned from doing a lot of...
- + Feministing—As Kiya just posted here, there's a discussion of BDSM going on over at Feministing here.Initially, I didn't want to comment, but the more I read of t...
- + Feministing—As Kiya just posted here, there's a discussion of BDSM going on over at Feministing here.Initially, I didn't want to comment, but the more I read of t...
- + The Revenge of Return of Second Cousin Of Rape Culture Strikes Back—In comments to the previous post, ggg_girl linked us this post on Feministing, where I made the mistake of reading the comment threads.This has had su...
- + Ren, on examining...—...And how could I leave out this recent gem, from our favorite loudmouthed gonzo creep, Ren:Right then! So, I am taking a break from my mad rush to g...
- + Threats—I posted this to my LJ, but hadn't posted it here, so:From tgstonebutch on LJ:Mollena is teaching a class on race play this Tuesday night. And has re...
- + Guest Post #2: Stoicism by cereus_sphinx—This was a recent post on cereus_sphinx's livejournal. I asked for permission to crosspost it here, so here it is:###OK : Warning this is going to be ...
- + Guest Post: "BDSM: A Class Act?"—This guest post is by Mz. Muse (I gather this is the name she uses on Feministing, but I don't know how to find her profile to link it). It was origi...
- + The Clean-Up Crew (Xpost)—Crossposted at Trin's request.(Semi-set off by a thread of commentary at SM-F.)A number of years ago I was working the local polyamory group's table o...
- + Facebook, Vol 2—A while ago I posted about the "Sex-Positive Feminists Critical of BDSM" group on Facebook.Not having a Facebook (still) and not wanting one (still), ...
- + You are not a serial killer! Or a rapist!—I lol'd:Part of me thinks it's a joke, and part of me thinks it's a terribly sincere confused person.What say you, Internetz? [Author: noreply@blogger...
- + Transgression—I'm getting into a bit of discussion in the comments to my post "Facebook" on the topic of "transgression."In that post, I use the dreaded T-word to ...
- + Violent Content—This is silly rather than serious, but I figure the regular readers of this blog will find it hilarious.Video, from The Onion: Should We Be Doing More...
- + Facebook...—I am not on facebook.Nor would I want to be.But here are some comments about this little group here, "Sex-Positive Feminists Critical of BDSM."First u...
- + Roaring—Sure, I can do that.I've talked about this before. A lot, honestly.But here we go. People who don't like me, or what I do, or my people, I have a chal...
- + Race Play—You all need to go read this, here, right now. A frank discussion of race play between two Black people. Start at Part 1 and read the whole thing in o...
- + Sex, Intimacy, Connection, and Critique—Roy Kay has an interesting post up at his LJ on the "radical feminists vs. BDSMers" dustups that happen now and again in blogland:There is an addition...
- + "Lifestyle"—I'm not sure at the moment if I ever linked this post of Kiya's, on the word "lifestyle" and what it means to call a subculture a "lifestyle." Perhaps...
- + Dworkin—xposted from my LJI posted to my LJ the other day about re-reading Dworkin, and I was just thinking that I want to say more about that. As that post m...
- + Definition Check—Okay, yeah, it's kind of one of those trainwreck fascination things that I keep coming back to or something -- every so often I reload that Feministin...
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