+ the sweet spot—Escorting was the final frontier in sex work for me.  I’ve hesit...

+ disarming audacity—[Pushing through more drafts. Yay, drafts! Boo, caption formatting tha...

+ the coldest winter—[I'm bumping off a series of old drafts. This was written some time in...

+ reblog—I have a branding problem: clients don’t like my blog.  Well, ha...

+ same story, new year—You know what’s crazy?  I’ve been “in the scene̶...

+ goin’ pro—With latex!  I’ve started working in the studio with Klawdya for...

+ stripping after nyc—What would stripper boot camp be?  Contract work like Guam, or those r...

+ walking in high heels—New York women are well-heeled.  I mean literally.  Not all of them, n...

+ how to break my heart in 10 seconds—“I love you, even though you’re a whore.  But can I ever t...

+ making latex clothing 101—I started making latex clothing out of stubbornness.  Surprise, right?...

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As of 5/24/13 7:47pm. Last new 2/27/13 12:06am.  Score: 11969

+ Dear Gay Leathermen: Why didn't you tell us?—So, the monkey and I happened by Leather Etc. in San Francisco yester...

+ Some rehashes about this blog.—Hey there, I go by the first initial D, and I'm "The Top". The monkey...

+ The Emotional Reset Button (reposted from Fetlife)—Sometimes, I need to just cry. I'm in a distance relationship, where ...

+ Something Important for Today— Things have been interesting and rough here, but if you don't recall...

+ I LOVE MY MONKEY ...—I LOVE MY MONKEY ...that is all.

+ Goals—The monkey is being slow to work on a few goals I've had set -- she's ...

+ Things feel good—I admit that while I don't post often and it seems more often than not...

+ The monkey returns—The monkey is back from a 21 day trip across the country, visiting fri...

+ lightening the mood—Top and I have a lot of amusing exchanges that I make a mental no...

+ As a followup to the last entry—I want to post some "life-goals" for the monkey. We've discussed some...

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As of 5/24/13 7:47pm. Last new 10/20/12 6:16pm.  Score: 9593

+ Forms of Power—A post here just got a very interesting comment. I'm going to reproduc...

+ Forms of Power—A post here just got a very interesting comment. I'm going to reproduc...

+ Irritating crap! ;-)—I was just poking around the blogosphere and completely by accident ca...

+ Irritating crap! ;-)—I was just poking around the blogosphere and completely by accident ca...

+ The Nature of Abuse—There's a very, very old thread over at Nine Deuce's on BDSM that has ...

+ The Nature of Abuse—There's a very, very old thread over at Nine Deuce's on BDSM that has ...

+ Thinky comments....—Just got an interesting comment on a rather old post, so I thought I'd...

+ Thinky comments....—Just got an interesting comment on a rather old post, so I thought I'd...

+ theory, kink, and feminism—I got an interesting comment on my recent post and I thought I should ...

+ theory, kink, and feminism—I got an interesting comment on my recent post and I thought I should ...

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As of 5/24/13 7:47pm. Last new 8/29/12 12:19pm.  Score: 6445

+ Beauty Foster—Going through some old work while it's still cold and my travel schedu...

+ kinda slow this time of year—new york has been locked in a cold spell and that has limited my shoot...

+ Ms Koi Bound With Hemp Rope Wearing Fishnets— I do miss Koi - she was a character and fun to shoot and tie - she ...

+ Stephy C Masturbating On Cobble Stone In Bondage— @JustStephyC in rope on cobble stones [Author: Stark-Arts]

+ Mistress Elena Part Dos— Mistress Elena - Yum [Author: Stark-Arts]

+ Mal Martine Returns In Latex Bikini— I love shooting Martine - she has a killer body, is brave, and i have...

+ Nipple Clamps, Gag, Asian Beauty— koan was my first real model - in lots of ways I owe her everythin...

+ Mistress Elena - NYC Latina Beauty—I've been shooting Mal Martine for a few months now and at her first s...

+ Mistress Elenea - NYC Latina Beauty—I've been shooting Mal Martine for a few months now and at her first s...

+ Blonde Bot—I had the pleasure this year to meet a model going by the name of Blon...

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As of 5/24/13 7:47pm. Last new 3/8/13 11:40pm.  Score: 5534

+ feeling awkward, staying shiny—This is a story about polyamory, and quantum physics, and dreams, and ...

+ feeling awkward, staying shiny—This is a story about polyamory, and quantum physics, and dreams, and ...

+ eating the devil—*Fuck* aging gracefully -- mostly because I just don't care anymore to...

+ eating the devil—*Fuck* aging gracefully -- mostly because I just don't care anymore to...

+ poly pace—When you're in poly relationships, you eventually develop a feel for t...

+ OMG, it's a penis..—Why do guys send gals pics of their cocks on dating sites?This questio...

+ some amazing sex + events are happening in my communty...— [Author: kiki]

+ whasslutmean2u?—Being a writer/librarian, I thought it might be fun to find out how we...

+ Jealousy Deconstructed: a workshop from The Bliss Factory—Here's a video clip from my workshop "Jealousy Deconstructed" (The Bli...

+ The Bliss Factory: New workshops for Fall 2011—My new poly, open and sex positive relationship workshops are up for F...

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As of 5/24/13 7:47pm. Last new 8/30/12 3:04pm.  Score: 5300

+ Check your privilege! George Carlin Style—I’m having a ‘WWGCD?’ moment. Would WOULD George Car...

+ Entitlement Culture—GAHHH! The internet is internetting wrong again. Back in the day (say....

+ But what I really meant was..—Its 3am. I should be trying to sleep. But after a few hours of interne...

+ Let’s get ready to ramble! or.. Gaslighting, Narcissism and other fun things—I have no idea where this post is going to go. Buyer beware.. Earlier ...

+ True Grit—I have a bit of a new resolution: to stop wearing my crazy as a consta...

+ Poly In Motion—Kink In Motion started as a way for me to talk about kink. It’s organi...

+ A letter to myself a year ago..—Dear Me A Year Ago, A significant date is coming up . A day that will ...

+ Things I keep meaning to blog about part 3: Poly—The last 60-70 days I’ve been pretty immersed in a few things. O...

+ Things I keep meaning to blog about part 2.. Quotes!—I find and hold on to quotes all the time. These are just a few of the...

+ Things I keep meaning to blog about part 1: Podcast Wisdom—Seems each year I find a new podcast to get obsessed with. First there...

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As of 5/24/13 7:47pm. Last new 5/21/13 2:13am.  Score: 2377

+ Boardwalk Badness – A Low Saturday—When we last left off, I had a happily spanked, flogged & caned b...

+ Kink of the Week – Panties!—I love panties! Lacy, frilly, sexy, cute, naughty or racy - I love the...

+ e[lust] #46—Photo courtesy of A Penny for Your Dirty Thoughts Welcome to e[lust] -...

+ Sinful Sunday – Abandoned Jade: A Tease—Some time ago I said that I was going to post a preview video of the v...

+ Kink of the Week – Collars—When I was thinking about the topic for this week’s KOTW, I admit to r...

+ Working with an Editor—I have had a lot of luck in my writing lately. Last year every story I...

+ Wicked Wednesday – Orgasm, a Portrait—Three orgasms, caught in the moment. I’m pretty easy to read. If...

+ Poly Q & A: “What if one of the Guys fell in love?”—How you would feel if one of your men fell in love with another girl? ...

+ On Sorrow, Death, Dying & Depression—(Photo in the featured slide image used by permission of a Creative Co...

+ Sinful Sunday – Masturbation is Dirty Business—"Have you masturbated today?" he asked, looking down at my filthy, dir...

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As of 5/24/13 7:47pm. Last new 5/23/13 11:51am.  Score: 1313