+ (from: anonymous) Lick it!—Hi Whispers! Here is my fantasy that gets me hot. I want to lick my hu...

+ (from: anonymous) It’s My Job—I am wearing a blindfold so I can’t see. But I can feel them all...

+ (from: Vulpes ) to Voski—After thinking about it for the last three days I think I’ve fig...

+ (from: Polly Amorous) Park Tease—We arrived too early for my heritage celebration so I suggested we gra...

+ (from: SpeakSexy) Mea Culpa—It seemed to have been a day like any other really. Morning services f...

+ (from: WetPussy) What a Slut I Am – Part II—So while He enjoyed reading about me telling the world at what I Slut ...

+ (from: WetPussy) Tell The World What A Slut You Are!!— I am writing this at the direction of my master. A few weeks ago i g...

+ (from: anonymous) Bath—There is a fantasy I have been having for as long as I can remember. I...

+ (from: Webmaster) Server glitch—Howdy, folks! I’ve just discovered a server glitch that means th...

+ (from: anonymous) desire—I knew as soon as I saw his truck I was going to walk right up to the ...

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As of 2/6/12 5:01pm. Last new 2/5/12 11:07pm.  Score: 8861

+ On Being Out—I’m out when it comes to poly. People who know me well know I am...

+ Bouncing the Reality Check—I’m in a primary poly relationship and a few secondary ones. On ...

+ One Poly Opera—Hello and thank you for taking the time to read this. It may be quite ...

+ Trying to Break Us Up—What to do when a secondary female is trying get the primary male to b...

+ Where’s the Love?—I have a fundamental flaw that is of course so embedded in my personal...

+ A Can of Worms: Polyamory Definitions—Got an interesting one in my mailbox this morning: How is Polyamory di...

+ Bailing on Dates—I met my secondary partner earlier this year and we took our time gett...

+ On Gaslighting—This guest column was written by Peter J. Vinton, Jr., aka The Prince....

+ One Poly Weekend—I had someone comment on Hobbiton today mentioning that she wasn’t see...

+ The Anti-Polyamory Press is at it Again—Why “Open” Marriages Don’t Work. This article is a ...

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As of 2/6/12 5:01pm. Last new 1/31/12 9:57am.  Score: 6969

+ Poly Advice for Newbies on Polyamory Weekly Podcast—I recently posted a review here of the awesome time I had at Polycamp ...

+ September 23 is Sexual Freedom Day!—Tomorrow is Sexual Freedom Day, established as such by the Woodhull Se...

+ My Excellent Summer Vacation, Part I - Polycamp NW—So it's back to school time, and I'm here to answer that time-honored ...

+ FetFest Poly Village—I am delighted to be hosting the Poly Village at the first ever FetFes...

+ Poly Lyrics in Contemporary Hip-Hop/Rap—Looks like the most powerful artists in hip-hop today are including po...

+ CARAS Con Addresses Polyamory Community Needs—Yesterday was a great day.  I had the privilege of mixing and min...

+ Calling All Therapists! CARAS Alternative Sexualities Conference August 3, 2011—I'm excited!  The Community-Academic Consortium for Research...

+ Check it out! CARAS Alternative Sexualities Conference August 3, 2011—I'm excited!  The Community-Academic Consortium for Research...

+ Polyamory Leadership Network—Over the last three years, the Polyamory Leadership Network has evolve...

+ Maria's Pride and Arnold's Dog House—I posted this political cartoon to Facebook today, remarking "Would th...

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As of 2/6/12 5:01pm. Last new 10/17/11 4:05pm.  Score: 3704

+ Western poly ideas spread to South Asia, and thoughts on the far future— [Author: noreply@blogger.com (Alan)] [Category: India / South Asia]

+ "Open Marriage’s New 15 Minutes," and a coming out for the Poly Leadership Network— [Author: noreply@blogger.com (Alan)] [Category: activism]

+ "Polygamy is harmful to society"— [Author: noreply@blogger.com (Alan)] [Category: polygamy]

+ "Why I Won't Bow To Monogamy"— [Author: noreply@blogger.com (Alan)] [Category: polys of color]

+ One day before primary, big poly article appears in Florida Republican country— [Author: noreply@blogger.com (Alan)] [Category: politics, Florida]

+ One day before primary, big poly article in Florida Republican country— [Author: noreply@blogger.com (Alan)] [Category: politics, Florida]

+ "Three's Company": Poly life in the northland— [Author: noreply@blogger.com (Alan)] [Category: Canada, The Best, Sho...

+ Confronting the slippery slope, and more Gingrich fallout— [Author: noreply@blogger.com (Alan)]

+ More on healthy poly families vs. Gingrichy behavior— [Author: noreply@blogger.com (Alan)] [Category: kids, The Best, Show ...

+ Newt Gingrich case prompts (some) excellent non-monogamy coverage— [Author: noreply@blogger.com (Alan)] [Category: gingrich]

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As of 2/6/12 5:01pm. Last new 2/5/12 10:39am.  Score: 2712

+ PW 306: Polyamory vs Polygamy—The differences between modern polyamory and traditional polygamy. Ema...

+ PW 305: You might be poly if...—You might be poly if... Email polyweekly@gmail.com, call 206-202-POLY,...

+ PW 304: The autonomy-intimacy scale—Kathy Labriola discusses the autonomy-intimacy scale and how it might ...

+ PW 303: Poly communication tips with Kathy Labriola—Kathy Labriola, a poly counselor and nurse and author of Love in Abund...

+ PW 302: When metamours attack—Joreth, Puck and Minx give advice to a gal in a situation with a contr...

+ PW 301: The metamour approach—How do you approach a third for a threesome or just one-on-one dating?...

+ PW 300: Celebrating YOU the listeners—Celebrating you the listeners--with content by you.Email polyweekly@gm...

+ PW 299: Poly Professional Women—How does a poly woman who works long hours and puts her career first f...

+ PW 298: The care and feeding of drama—The care and feeding of your poly drama (and how to avoid it)! Email p...

+ PW 297: Poly for the holidays—Poly for the holidays advice session with cohosts Joreth and Puck. Ema...

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As of 2/6/12 5:01pm. Last new 2/6/12 2:44pm.  Score: 2509

+ I was reminded yesterday by a friend that I haven'...—I was reminded yesterday by a friend that I haven't posted to this jou...

+ Get your very own poster of the sex map!—Get your very own poster of the sex map!Available for pre order now:

+ — Find out where I've journeyedon the Map of Human Sexuality!Or ge...

+ bzz bzz bzz (that's busy as a bee) get your mind out of the gutter! (or not)—I've been so busy *doing* things lately I haven't had much time t...

+  I was just struck by an amusing thought. Whe...— I was just struck by an amusing thought. When I don't know how t...

+ Trying to figure out if something is normal or ...—Trying to figure out if something is normal or not. I'm pretty sure it...

+ Oh - I don't think i've specifically mentioned ...—Oh - I don't think i've specifically mentioned it but I am now screeni...

+ I want to be beaten. It's been  almost a mont...—I want to be beaten. It's been  almost a month. Hopefully I'll ge...

+ *WANT* —*WANT*  http://www.blowfish.com/catalog/toys/nonreal_dildos.html#...

+ A fantasy—Posted at the request of.. someone special.  One variant of ...

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As of 2/6/12 5:01pm. Last new 8/28/09 9:20pm.  Score: 11295

+ walking in high heels—New York women are well-heeled.  I mean literally.  Not all of them, n...

+ how to break my heart in 10 seconds—“I love you, even though you’re a whore.  But can I ever t...

+ making latex clothing 101—I started making latex clothing out of stubbornness.  Surprise, right?...

+ my lapses—Last week at a fetish party, the Doctor tossed me at Miss Millay.  ...

+ art is a dirty word—I am the last to get on a lot of bandwagons.  Recently, webcamming. (I...

+ stripper labor law & boston’s poly speed dating—I’d like to signal boost for a couple of events, one here and on...

+ 3 myths about NYC strip clubs—I would like to clear up a few misconceptions about Manhattan strip cl...

+ the perfect curls— Please pardon the mess in my bedroom and focus on the hair. I origina...

+ readermail: anal bleaching (and why not to)—Hi, Calico! I know that you don’t know me or anything, but I fol...

+ the grass is always greener—I may have mentioned that I strip. Strippers tend to hop from club to ...

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As of 2/6/12 5:01pm. Last new 9/21/11 10:27pm.  Score: 9041

+ I LOVE MY MONKEY ...—I LOVE MY MONKEY ...that is all.

+ Goals—The monkey is being slow to work on a few goals I've had set -- she's ...

+ Things feel good—I admit that while I don't post often and it seems more often than not...

+ The monkey returns—The monkey is back from a 21 day trip across the country, visiting fri...

+ lightening the mood—Top and I have a lot of amusing exchanges that I make a mental no...

+ As a followup to the last entry—I want to post some "life-goals" for the monkey. We've discussed some...

+ I haven't been blogging lately—Note: this entry was started december 3rd. At that time, the monkey h...

+ There's a lot of anger here.—It's been a stressful night. For various reasons, the monkey was supp...

+ Losing It—The Monkey has been struggling with "freak out" attacks for as long as...

+ So, an update...—I know the monkey had started to (on paper) write an entry, but I'm he...

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As of 2/6/12 5:01pm. Last new 3/24/11 5:16am.  Score: 6020

+ Forms of Power—A post here just got a very interesting comment. I'm going to reproduc...

+ Irritating crap! ;-)—I was just poking around the blogosphere and completely by accident ca...

+ The Nature of Abuse—There's a very, very old thread over at Nine Deuce's on BDSM that has ...

+ Thinky comments....—Just got an interesting comment on a rather old post, so I thought I'd...

+ theory, kink, and feminism—I got an interesting comment on my recent post and I thought I should ...

+ Pulling out a comment—This was buried in the comments in the Respect, Again post and I figur...

+ Respect again—xposted from my lji'm too heartsick to excerpt from it... but guys, re...

+ research and knowledge—In the comments to my last post, I've been called by an anonymous comm...

+ More on anger...—This is really just a continuation of the last "My, that was angry, hu...

+ I wish I had...—a coherent response to this:Joan Kelly January 17, 2010 at 7:...

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As of 2/6/12 5:01pm. Last new 7/11/10 12:05pm.  Score: 5304

+ whasslutmean2u?—Being a writer/librarian, I thought it might be fun to find out how we...

+ Jealousy Deconstructed: a workshop from The Bliss Factory—Here's a video clip from my workshop "Jealousy Deconstructed" (The Bli...

+ The Bliss Factory: New workshops for Fall 2011—My new poly, open and sex positive relationship workshops are up for F...

+ good poly/bad poly -- but how do we define poly?—How do we define and describe polyamory to those who don't know about ...

+ why I shaved my head—Why not? Ok, well there are actually a few more reasons.. The first o...

+ Is Polyamory the New Gay? Hm, not really..—Polyamory has been making headlines in the Canadian media for the last...

+ catalysts need love, toooo..—I seem to be a poly catalyst.  You know, the girl who sparks the poly ...

+ why I believe polyamory is a choice—This is simple, really. I believe we choose ALL of our actions. Note t...

+ moment to breathe—When things become too confusing, and many voices compete more and mor...

+ some thoughts on triggers and little fears—My mind that creates wondrous love also creates fantastic fears, with ...

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As of 2/6/12 5:01pm. Last new 1/18/12 12:26pm.  Score: 3534

+ Danah Part II— Not the normal Stark-Arts location to shoot but over...

+ Danah— Danah is a model i've shot recently that I got back in front of...

+ Danahh— Danahh is a model i've shot recently that I got back in front o...

+ A New Year— Looking forward to a year of incredible experiences and amazing photo...

+ Vixen Combat II— More shots of Danahh and Fatimah for the coming soo...

+ Vixen Combat— I shot some promo stuff for a new women's fighting le...

+ Glasses Garter and Glamour— long time in the making my shoot with ElanVital_NYC still wasn't...

+ Driving— i drove about 2500 miles this past Sunday ...

+ A First Time For Everything— I'd never tied a man. Not for real. Certainly never to this extent. ...

+ Smart and Hot—  spending the day with a gorgeous model can be fun, it can be...

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As of 2/6/12 5:01pm. Last new 1/30/12 7:56am.  Score: 3280

+ Flirt’s Spring Fling—Flirt’s Spring Fling, a set on Flickr. Filed under: Uncategorize...

+ Carnival Exotique—Happy Shiny Glowy Things at Carnival Exotique.. and a few kaleidoscope...

+ I have $50. I repeat, I have $50—This actually infuriated me, but I am choosing to reframe it as absurd...

+ Why you should and shouldn’t research things on the internet—Absurdity 2012 – The hits just keep on a’comin. You know h...

+ You gotta laugh or you’ll cry yourself into an early grave—Apparently I am toxic to any men in my life. Today is the 14th anniver...

+ Stop Helping.. No really, stop it—I have been awake for 17 minutes and the absurdity was waiting for me ...

+ Amen and Pass the Mayonnaise!—In these confusing times, thank the maker that there is a guiding ligh...

+ My Last… Video of the Year!—So I guess technically its a post, but my date got strep so I am home ...

+ My Last Post of the Year—All day I have had this niggling. Like I need to write stuff. Big, imp...

+ Blue Sky—or… How I Spent My Summer Vacation. On rooftops. or.. My Plan to...

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As of 2/6/12 5:01pm. Last new 2/4/12 3:32pm.  Score: 2088

+ Who has money and time to devote to S&M?—It’s always interesting to get an outsider’s view of BDSM....

+ Barbed wire bondage—When I look at kinky photos I often think about what it’d be lik...

+ Ethereal harmonies and authentic bondage—This tickled both my brain and my libido! I loved the ethereal harmoni...

+ It was a great fuck—It was a great fuck. It was a fuck of energy. A raw fuck. An intense f...

+ Sunday porn update #77—Like previous weeks, here’s last week’s updates for all th...

+ Art and kink (photoset)—There is SO much porn on the internet, but it isn’t easy to find...

+ In her dark heart she craved just a little more—From a sub’s perspective it can be interesting to see what goes ...

+ Stitches that pull on the skin of her breasts—This is really fucked up, but I love it. I imagine tweaking the thread...

+ His fingers twisted my nipples until I was fucking him desperately—His touches came as intense tingles; they were the merest hints of con...

+ Sunday porn update #76—Like previous weeks, here’s last week’s updates for all th...

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As of 2/6/12 5:01pm. Last new 2/1/12 10:30am.  Score: 1220

+ Sinful Sunday – Bedtime at W’s—Ready for bed… ~click thru to see the full view~ Sinful Sunday i...

+ There ain’t no halvsies in caning.—This was my sign-off on FB & FL last night: “It’s offi...

+ “Voyeur Eyes Only” is Out!—And available for the Kindle on Amazon.  (Audible to come soon.) From ...

+ A Swinging Night – Part 2—So hey, let’s get back to talking about fucking, shall we??!? Wh...

+ On Being a “Winner”—So yeah, apparently I am. I was named Top Sex Blogger in this yearR...

+ This is not going to be a happy post.  Ignore it,...—This is not going to be a happy post.  Ignore it, and move on. I don&#...

+ Sinful Sunday – Shoe…Addiction? Possibly…—So my daughter may have as severe an addiction to appreciation for hig...

+ Sinful Sunday – Shoe…Addiction? Possibly…—So my daughter may have as severe an addiction to appreciation for hig...

+ Sleeping with Steve Madden—I figured, since I’ve had Tiger Woods in my pussy (twice!), that...

+ Sleeping with Steve Madden—I figured, since I’ve had Tiger Woods in my pussy (twice!), that...

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As of 2/6/12 5:01pm. Last new 2/5/12 2:23pm.  Score: 800

+ the year of living almost celibately—it's been a strange year. for someone who advises people to have plent...

+ Release—The latest issue of F/lthy Gorgeous Th/ngs, which is Release, went liv...

+ Modern Love and Legendary Cocks—Many thanks to Madeline for Fleshbotting my Legendary Cocks post (writ...

+ Cock Love ii. Tales of Legendary Cocks.—I just had sex with the most phenomenal cock I've ever met.I say 'cock...

+ F/lthy Gorgeous Th/ngs—Without further ado, allow me to introduce:filthygorgeousthings.comIf ...

+ Open letter to photographers—I just received an email yesterday from a photographer, the likes of w...

+ Savage lust please—debauchette and I are looking for reader submissions for a couple of a...

+ Getting back in touch—Hello there.I've been awfully remiss in writing lately. debauchette a...

+ Natural birth control—Question: Which method of birth control is 99.9% effective (actually ...

+ Saddlebacking defined—The verdict is in. Saddlebacking sad•dle•back•ing \ˈsa-dəl-ˈba-kiŋ\ v...

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As of 2/6/12 5:01pm. Last new 1/11/11 12:33am.  Score: 7696

+ Belle de Jour is the pen name of Dr Brooke Magnant...—Belle de Jour is the pen name of Dr Brooke Magnanti, a UK-based writer...

+ Psst... I'm blogging again! —Psst... I'm blogging again! Look over here for the Sexonomics blog and...

+ The SWAAY billboard about sex work - which will be...—The SWAAY billboard about sex work - which will be the first of its ki...

+ Psst... I'm blogging again! —Psst... I'm blogging again! Look over here for the Sexonomics blog.Fir...

+ Psst... I'm blogging again! —Psst... I'm blogging again! Look over here.First topic over there is m...

+ Psst... I'm blogging again! —Psst... I'm blogging again! Look over here.First topic over there is m...

+ Please read my —Please read my green paper on why the widely reported 2003 paper conne...

+ Please read my —Please read my green paper on why the widely reported 2003 paper conne...

+ Please read my —Please read my green paper on why the widely reported 2003 paper conne...

+ Please read my —Please read my green paper on why the widely reported 2003 paper conne...

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As of 2/6/12 5:01pm. Last new 10/10/11 1:41pm.  Score: 5801

+ Body Mapping: Sex and Asperger Syndrome— [Author: noreply@blogger.com (Amy)] [Category: sex, dating, Asperger ...

+ Osmolality and toxicity of sexual lubricants— [Author: noreply@blogger.com (Amy)] [Category: STIs, sex, sex ed, hea...

+ Osmolarity and toxicity of sexual lubricants— [Author: noreply@blogger.com (Amy)] [Category: STIs, sex, sex ed, hea...

+ A must-read if you love someone with AS— [Author: noreply@blogger.com (Amy)] [Category: women, sex, dating, As...

+ Communication in an "Aspie Marriage"— [Author: noreply@blogger.com (Amy)] [Category: women, sex, attraction...

+ The State of the Amy— [Author: noreply@blogger.com (Amy)] [Category: ASHA, sex ed, sexual o...

+ ASHA's "Ask the Experts"— [Author: amy@embodiedsexuality.com (Amy Stapleford)] [Category: women...

+ When your partner has ADD, part V: stimulant drugs— [Author: amy@embodiedsexuality.com (Amy Stapleford)] [Category: women...

+ When your partner has ADD, part IV: mental and emotional stimulation— [Author: amy@embodiedsexuality.com (Amy Stapleford)] [Category: women...

+ When your partner has ADD, part III: changing positions— [Author: amy@embodiedsexuality.com (Amy Stapleford)] [Category: women...

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As of 2/6/12 5:01pm. Last new 5/8/11 8:12pm.  Score: 5775

+ Caroling for BDSM, Bondage, & Burlesque!??!—Oh, tis the season!! Kinky in Virginia, perhaps, but first Florid...

+ ... long times between kinks—Wow... can't believe it's been a year since i've posted! The New Zeala...

+ New Zealand Fetish Ball—Oh the joys and hopes!New Zealand has a Fetish Ball coming up! Li...

+ Burlesque Competition Video—YAY!!! Thanks to a pal for taking this video, and recently upload...

+ Midori is a great kisser....—I dream vivid dreams, and strange yet telling, dreams. Apparently my i...

+ Midori is a great kisser....—I dream vivid dreams, and strange yet telling, dreams. Apparently my i...

+ DOKKKTOOOOR ALISON, In the HOUSE—HOT DAMN.... I'm going to do it... post the strange one on the 'f...

+ OH YESSS, PS—Think HOOTERS is something??There's an energy drink here with a r...

+ Magical Workings!—Wow, did that FUCK YOU ever work!Not that I said "fuck you&q...

+ Our own lyrics—Reading a really powerful, deeply honest post has made me think about ...

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As of 2/6/12 5:01pm. Last new 11/30/10 10:55pm.  Score: 5100

+ 13 ways of looking at an abortion—Thirty-nine years ago, the decision known as the Supreme Court handed ...

+ ovunque, ma qui—The wood is wet. Sadly, this is not a euphemism. The wood is wet despi...

+ not fade away—I went to only one Grateful Dead show. It was such a perfect experienc...

+ stand back. woman with a sword.— Oh, Dr Who. You showed such promise with the creation of Dr River Son...

+ stand back. woman with a sword— Oh, Dr Who. You showed such promise with the creation of Dr River Son...

+ feeding the dream of The Impossible Girl— I don’t remember when I started following Kim Boekbinder, The Artist ...

+ her name isn't bubbles—My friend Bubbles Burbujas, also known as the amazing StripperTw...

+ my name is me— I wrote something for My Name Is Me, the campaign against requiring &...

+ tits and sass and wits and class—I'm a friend of Bubbles, one of the unstoppable forces of seductio...

+ atmospheric entry—I wrote about returning to Gotham from Italy. Read it or listen to it ...

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As of 2/6/12 5:01pm. Last new 1/22/12 5:16pm.  Score: 4250

+ February giveaway: The Adventures of a Lesbian College Schoolgirl— It’s time for giveaway #3 in my year of giveaways. This month ...

+ Sex Diary Quickie: February 4th, 2008—Mac, his bed. I started on top, but had a sore on my knee that kept ge...

+ Sex Diary Quickie: January 27th, 2008—Mac, his bed. After lazily hanging around his apartment all day we had...

+ Sex Diary Quickie: January 22nd 2008—Lucky, our bed. It was wonderful. [Category: Quickies]

+ S.H.— A special picture from reader S.H. Back to Reader Submission Galler...

+ Sex Diary Quickie: January 10th, 2008—Mac, his bed. We started almost as soon as I got to his place. We didn...

+ Sex Diary Quickie: January 6th, 2008—Lucky, in our car on the side of the road. We were driving to visit my...

+ Sex Diary Quickie: December 26th, 2007—Lucky, on an airbed in his parents’ house. Earlier that day he&#...

+ Sex Poll: What color is your vibrator?— It’s time for you to tell me your dirty little secrets, by answ...

+ Sex Diary Quickie: November 4th 2007—Lucky, in the bedroom. On my stomach. After a nice massage. [Ca...

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As of 2/6/12 5:01pm. Last new 2/5/12 4:35pm.  Score: 3859

+ Between The Lines: What Norah Vincent's New Book Really Has To Tell Us—Never-boring author Norah Vincent has penned a new book that's quite c...

+ 25 Things I Want (In Bed)—Recently, Greta Christina got the awesome opportunity to go and see Ad...

+ Sexy Specs: Guys In Glasses Picspam—I find it ridiculously sad that while glasses have gotten deserved lov...

+ Can I Be Your Daddy?—This is an old Myspace blog I wrote a couple of years ago, but I feel ...

+ Shit That Makes Me Angry—If I come across something I find upsetting, I usually try to give it ...

+ Yes, I Would Like A Bumpy Glass Dildo, Please—And really, who wouldn't? They're solid and heavy and require less lu...

+ Teabaggin' Singalong—(Found this one lurking in my "Drafts". Unfortunately I missed out on ...

+ "But You'd Look So Pretty If You Wore Makeup!"—I've been feeling very . . . attacked lately because of my gender and ...

+ Dudes With Boobs—Yeah, it's a post about guys with boobs, as says the title. And no, i...

+ I'm A Winner!—Did I happen to mention THAT I WON THE SEXTOYS.COM CONTEST? (Oh yes, t...

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As of 2/6/12 5:01pm. Last new 6/15/11 3:42pm.  Score: 3840

+ THIS BLOG HAS MOVED!—THIS BLOG HAS MOVED! As of this writing, I am no longer blogging at t...

+ I'm on Twitter!— I have gone to the dark side, and am now on Twitter! If you want to k...

+ Puritan Pundits Should Chill Out -- Here Are 5 Reasons I'm Happy I've Had Lots of Casual Sex— The phenomenon of women who have sex for its own sake seems to baffle...

+ The Switch to Freethought Blogs - Some Questions Answered—As regular readers already know, this blog is going to be migrating. I...

+ Grief Beyond Belief -- How Atheists Are Dealing With Death—This piece was originally published on AlterNet. In a society that re...

+ I Need a Banner For My Freethought Blog!—I'm going to be moving my blog to the Freethought Blogs network soon, ...

+ The Karaoke Pledge Has Been Completed!—And here it is, as promised -- video of me singing karaoke. Jesus fic...

+ We Are Atheism - Greta's Video—Y'all know about the It Gets Better project, right? Where people make ...

+ Greta Interviewed on "Ask an Atheist" Podcast!—Are you a podcast fan? If so, check out my latest interview! I was rec...

+ Memo to Religious People: Many Atheists Don't Want to Hear That Their Loved Ones "Are in Heaven" -- New Group for Non-Believers Helps Atheists Grieve— In a society that reflexively copes with death by using religion, gri...

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As of 2/6/12 5:01pm. Last new 9/1/11 4:14am.  Score: 3822

+ Property values—When I posted my recently about my Title Deed, and my Owner/property r...

+ Roped to a tree—It has been a damned long time since I was tied up – and I miss ...

+ Intriguing Reading #12—My regular roundup of interesting reads, found from all over the place...

+ Sodom: Jake—If Sodom is a mystery, a fantasy spread on the wings of rumor, then th...

+ Cuddly bear—Sometimes you just want to cuddle a gigantic teddy bear. And sometimes...

+ Entitled—As of today, I am officially m’Lady’s property – and...

+ Attractiveness—Guest post by Tethys, reprinted here with m’Lady’s permiss...

+ Sharing shears—I love sharp things. They make me squirmy and turned on and hot. So wh...

+ Intriguing Reading #11—My regular roundup of interesting reads, found from all over the place...

+ Ask Aunty Dee: How does a vac bed work?—The luscious BadBexie wanted to see me in a Vacuum Bed, and I was happ...

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As of 2/6/12 5:01pm. Last new 2/6/12 2:37am.  Score: 3754

+ Crazy Girl Soy Massage Candle Pink Cupcake—Right, so let me go ahead and say that this product is the one I liked...

+ Wanna Be Dazzling Sparkling Body Lotion—So Classic Erotica sent me the matching body lotion scent to go with m...

+ Wanna Be Sexy Flirty Body Mist—When I love a product, it gets a lot of use. I have used the Wanna Be ...

+ Kinklab Neon Wand Giveaway—Lately, I’ve been hosting giveaways for things I’ve tried....

+ I Did It—For over a year, I liked the Hot Nerd. A year, you guys! For over half...

+ Technical Difficulties—After moving to a new host, I am having technical difficulties with my...

+ Technically Difficulties—After moving to a new host, I am having technical difficulties with my...

+ Material Girl Fetish Fantasy Lingerie—oor Every Mistake A Lingerie Manufacturer Could Make. I can’t ev...

+ Tickle My Tush—I’ve seen the books by Dr. Sadie before. They have cute names li...

+ Leaf Spirit—The Spirit was the vibrator that I wanted the most out of the Leaf lin...

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As of 2/6/12 5:01pm. Last new 2/4/12 8:24pm.  Score: 2010

+ Should we bring back the Sex Blogger Co-Op for a trial revival?—A number of the 100-some original members are long gone and in their p...

+ Wanton Wednesday: Peek-a-boo(b)!—Trying my hand at these animated gifs has given me a little motivation...

+ Interview with a Sex Toy Reviewer: Part 3: Epiphora—Continuing the interviews after Elizabeth Red in Part 2 and answering ...

+ Pleasursists #165—Welcome to Pleasurists, a round-up of the adult product and sex toy re...

+ ILU—I have 6 drafts that are half-finished. I’ve been in some state ...

+ Why I Write – And Respect – Negative Sex Toy Reviews—Today I happened upon a sex toy reviewing blog whose mission statement...

+ Why I Hate JIMMYJANE: Part 1 – The Form 3 Review—Subtitled: When you’re right, you’re right or I should lis...

+ A very animated Wanton Wednesday—I’m posting this early because tomorrow is the SOPA Blackout and...

+ Interview with a Sex Toy Reviewer: Part 2 – Elizabeth Red—Now I turn the tables on other reviews, after answering these question...

+ Saturday Snark: Sneaky Idiots, Idiotic PR and XBIZ’s Idiotic List—Oh how I’m feeling the snark after this last week. Remember my s...

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As of 2/6/12 5:01pm. Last new 2/1/12 2:42pm.  Score: 1977

+ Pass It On: the result of The New Year Experiment—The sexual instinct is a social instinct. We partner, we become “a cou...

+ Year of Kisses: her response to The New Year Experiment—Happy New Year, X! I kiss you and wish you all the best. There. Am I d...

+ The New Year Experiment—Dear Dreamy One, I hope you’re as sexy as ever, wherever you are...

+ Dirty Secrets: The result of The Airplane Experiment—Is the pussy, the cock, the closest organ to the brain? That’s n...

+ Highly Classified Fuck: her response to The Airplane Experiment—Mr. X, I hate traveling and I hate flying the most. Actually I should ...

+ The Airplane Experiment—Long Distance Lady, I keep picking up the phone, hoping to hear you te...

+ Site Activity: 15% Gratuity + Lust—We’re travelling over the holidays, and though I know we’ll be getting...

+ Fore/play: Mona’s response to her Fantasy Experiment—Daring Mona is unlike daring my wife. It is unlike daring other women ...

+ Site Highlight: Reader on a Bus—There are secret connections being formed underground. A million eroti...

+ Mona’s Fantasy Experiment—I have admittedly been spending a good portion of time fondly recallin...

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As of 2/6/12 5:01pm. Last new 2/3/12 7:27am.  Score: 1636

+ Who has money and time to devote to S&M?—It’s always interesting to get an outsider’s view of BDSM....

+ Barbed wire bondage—When I look at kinky photos I often think about what it’d be lik...

+ Ethereal harmonies and authentic bondage—This tickled both my brain and my libido! I loved the ethereal harmoni...

+ It was a great fuck—It was a great fuck. It was a fuck of energy. A raw fuck. An intense f...

+ Sunday porn update #77—Like previous weeks, here’s last week’s updates for all th...

+ Art and kink (photoset)—There is SO much porn on the internet, but it isn’t easy to find...

+ In her dark heart she craved just a little more—From a sub’s perspective it can be interesting to see what goes ...

+ Stitches that pull on the skin of her breasts—This is really fucked up, but I love it. I imagine tweaking the thread...

+ His fingers twisted my nipples until I was fucking him desperately—His touches came as intense tingles; they were the merest hints of con...

+ Sunday porn update #76—Like previous weeks, here’s last week’s updates for all th...

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As of 2/6/12 5:01pm. Last new 2/1/12 10:31am.  Score: 1040

+ Exposition— You may have already figured out that I am single now. You’re s...

+ ConTuesday! Gaydar, kittens, and seven long weeks—Thank you for trusting me with your confessions. Especially the really...

+ Not a ten.—I lay no claim to being exceptionally dateable. It can’t be easy...

+ ConTuesday! Moderately-priced intercourse package—It’s cute how I can’t just get a cold or the flu and then ...

+ Heartbreak—So my ribcage is hinged now, like a huge pair of jaws. It yawns wide, ...

+ Digital liberty—Things I don’t want the government to have the power to control ...

+ ConTuesday! Guilt cage.—I feel guilty a lot, mostly because I do stupid things a lot. Not mali...

+ Of stags and dragons—It’s kind of a lonely feeling. I’m excited about exploring...

+ ConTuesday! Those little disappointments.—Life is full of little disappointments, isn’t it? Well, not so m...

+ Queue up 2012 and let’s dance to it.—One of the best Valentine’s days (er, nights) I’ve ever ex...

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As of 2/6/12 5:01pm. Last new 2/2/12 9:28am.  Score: 888

+ I Have a New Home!!—Please come see me at That’s What Sadie Said! Share: ...

+ The End. My Last Confession, #602—We decided today that our marriage is over. We will begin divorce proc...

+ Blood. Confession #601—How do you do maintain your sobriety through the tough parts? She aske...

+ Hope. Confession #600—Confessions are fascinating offerings, aren’t they? We take our innerm...

+ Soles. Confession #599—Last night’s casual grab of the back of my neck by a good friend...

+ Burning Sadie. Confession #598—Utter calmness descended upon me as we drove away from Austin, despite...

+ Blur. Confession #597—I stood peering at myself in the mirror, wondering if I looked the sam...

+ Shift. Confession #596—Scott and I had just had a really big argument. Or perhaps I should sa...

+ Cutting. Confession #595—These days I feel really similarly to how I felt when I quit drinking....

+ Sadie’s Last BedPost Confessions Performance—About my penchant for a specific style of gay porn. It can be seen her...

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As of 2/6/12 5:01pm. Last new 12/8/11 12:47pm.  Score: 770

+ Hitting the right note— This week’s sex tip is an unusual spin on the basic concept of ...

+ Spreading Christmas Joy—Christmas is almost on top of us, and we here at Weekly Sex Tip would ...

+ Boosting your Sexual Self-Confidence—A reader writes: I am in a new sexual relationship with a great guy. I...

+ Bondage…without rope!—If you hear the word “bondage,” what’s the first thi...

+ Communicating desire—A couple of months ago, someone asked me in an email how to talk to he...

+ Talk dirty to me, baby!—A reader writes, I like dirty talking. I keep asking my new boyfriend ...

+ Ben-Wa Balls and Sex—A reader asks, Is it okay for my lover to enter me even though I have ...

+ Food Play, Part 3 – Sweet Sensations—Note: This sex tip is part 3 of a three-part Food and Sex special cont...

+ Food Play, Part 2 – Vegetable Matters—Note: This sex tip is part 2 of a three-part Food and Sex special cont...

+ Food Play, Part 1 – Dessert!—Note: This sex tip is part 1 of a three-part Food and Sex special cont...

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As of 2/6/12 5:01pm. Last new 12/29/10 3:51am.  Score: 7086

+ Possible Real Touch Dildo Sighting?—This may be the closest I ever get to being the TMZ of butt plugs. It...

+ The Pen15 Board - Arduino Teledildonics Shield—The Pen15 Board Oh my god I can’t believe we’re actually ...

+ Scored Sex - VSex and Gamecrush—Ok, after a month of code and blog work on self quantification, itR...

+ Introducing OpenYou.org— Ya know, you run a site called slashdong for long enough, ...

+ The Thousand Names of Go^H^H a Teledildonics Expert—So, throughout the past month, there’s been a whole big bunch of...

+ Thrixxx Kinect Video - Uncensored— Now that Thrixxx (the makers of the Virtually Jenna and 3D Sex Villa)...

+ OpenKinect Talk Video from NerdNite SF—Nerd Nite SF: "OpenKinect: One Month In" - Kyle Machulis, 12/15/10 fro...

+ Thrixxx makes Kinect interface to 3DSexVilla Game—Thrixxx makes Kinect interface to 3DSexVilla Game UPDATE: Post updated...

+ The Toy Returns - This Time on Android—The Toy Returns - This Time on Android My god, they really, actuall...

+ Teledildonics Patents in court. Again—Teledildonics patents in court. Again In another case of probably t...

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As of 2/6/12 5:01pm. Last new 1/14/12 9:17am.  Score: 7347

+ I’m coming out of retirement for One Night Only, this Saturday in SF — see you there?—The Bay Area’s craziest spoken word event celebrates its 10th an...

+ Girlfriends ask, boyfriends deliver: Design your own luxury sex toy—I estimate that at least half of the sex-tech entrepreneurs I’ve...

+ Follow-up: ThriXXX supports Kinect and Fleshlight simultaneously—I’ve had a great email exchange with Brad at ThriXXX and am stil...

+ Follow-up: ThriXXX supports Kinnect and Fleshlight simultaneously—I’ve had a great email exchange with Brad at ThriXXX and am stil...

+ Kinect goes Wiiiiiiiiiiii, Wiiiii, Wiiii, all the way home — to home base, that is—The month has been full of “OMFG when will someone develop a sex...

+ Stem Cell Transplant Cures HIV In ‘Berlin Patient’—Stem Cell Transplant Cures HIV In ‘Berlin Patient’. Timoth...

+ I’ll see your tentacle and raise you a Pigeon—Geekologie and about a billion other nerdy sites posted about a robot ...

+ 5 years later, The Toy pairs with Droid to bring more joy—Almost exactly five years ago, I wrote about a complex and interesting...

+ Sherri Williams plays by Alabama rules, opens sex toy drive-thru—I wrote about Sherri Williams v. Alabama in 2005 (“Do You Have a...

+ Tentacle Dreams erotica anthology now on Kindle—Yay! [Category: erotica, me!, mobile, stuff i produced, fantasy eroti...

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As of 2/6/12 5:15pm. Last new 4/7/11 5:33pm.  Score: 4320

+ What Women Think About During Sex—This post is hilariously sponsored by: Random Screw Cams – it...

+ Yoga-licious—It’s winter time (as if you hadn’t noticed) and that means...

+ Do Women Give Oral a Warm Reception?—  One of our members recently asked us: “I wonder if most w...

+ Is Homosexuality Still An Issue? Is Love?—What? The world isn’t flat? Well guess what I heard over the wee...

+ Erotic Halloween Ideas—So it’s almost Halloween and you’re wondering just what ta...

+ “A Unique EMT Response….”—(due to the medical nature of the story, as well as privacy issues, na...

+ Sexual Transition for the 30+—In a relationship?  Check. Have sex often? Eh..semi-check. Is the sex ...

+ Does Sexy History Exist?—Horace Greasley was a 20-year-old Czechoslovakian barber when Hitler i...

+ Modern Audio Erotica—  No, despite the title you won’t hear the audio track for ...

+ 10 Sex Fests You Really Should Attend—his post is jet settingly sponsored by the wonderful erotic photograph...

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As of 2/6/12 5:15pm. Last new 1/27/12 2:13pm.  Score: 2028

+ Reminder: Submissions for edition #33 close soon!—Reminder that submissions will close at midnight, February 7th! As per...

+ Submissions are now open for February, Edition 33—Hi everyone! Submissions are now open for the February edition. As per...

+ e[lust] #32—Photo courtesy of Lady Grinning Soul Welcome to e[lust], the sex blog ...

+ Submissions for January edition (#32) ending soon!—Submissions for this month’s edition will be closing tomorrow, t...

+ Submissions are now open for the January edition of e[lust]—Welcome back! As I’m sure you all know by now there are a lot of...

+ Almost time!—The new schedule will be in effect soon and submissions for the next e...

+ A new year and a new method!—There will be no edition for the month of December due to the timing o...

+ e[lust] 31—  Welcome to e[lust] - Your source for sexual intelligence and inspira...

+ e[lust] #30— Photo courtesy of Emmy @ Right Turn Without Signaling  Welcome to e[l...

+ e[lust] 29—  Welcome to e[lust] - Your source for sexual intelligence and inspira...

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As of 2/6/12 5:15pm. Last new 2/6/12 12:14pm.  Score: 1682